Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families

#1214 - Sharp Knives and High Places: Why Your Child Needs Risky Play


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Science confirms what our grandparents instinctively knew—children who engage in risky outdoor play develop better motor skills, higher self-esteem, improved social behaviour, and greater problem-solving abilities. Counterintuitively, keeping kids at low heights doesn't prevent injuries, as most fractures occur close to the ground anyway. When we let children climb high, use sharp tools, play with dangerous elements, and occasionally disappear from adult supervision, we're not being negligent—we're helping them develop crucial life skills that no amount of supervised indoor activities can provide.

Quote of the Episode:

"When did injuring yourself become such a big deal? I mean, when we were kids, it was so exciting to walk in and see that somebody had a cast on their arm—the superhero in the classroom." - Justin Coulson

Key Points:

  • Risky play is different from hazardous activity—the child can assess the risk themselves and there's a clear benefit.
  • Children who engage in risky play show improved risk detection, increased competence, higher self-esteem, and decreased conflict sensitivity.
  • Research shows more developed motor skills, better social behaviour, greater independence, and improved conflict resolution in children with access to unsupervised outdoor play.
  • Today's children spend less time outdoors and in unstructured play than ever before in history.
  • Fracture frequency and severity is not related to the height of playground equipment—54% of arm fractures occur at low heights.
  • Sharp knives are actually safer than blunt knives (they require less force and are less likely to slip).
  • Types of risky play include activities involving heights, speed, dangerous tools, dangerous elements, rough-and-tumble play, and the possibility of getting lost.
  • Play where children can disappear or get lost and risky play environments are positively associated with physical activity and social health.
  • Rough and tumble play doesn't increase aggression and is associated with increased social competence.
  • Risky play supports playtime, social interactions, creativity, and resilience.

 

Resources Mentioned:

  • International Journal of Environmental Research and Public Health (2015) meta-analysis on risky outdoor play
  • Happy Families website 

 

Action Steps for Parents:

  1. Distinguish between hazardous activities (where children can't assess risk) and beneficial risky play.
  2. Allow age-appropriate risk-taking, such as climbing heights, using real tools, or playing at speed.
  3. Step back and monitor from a distance rather than constantly supervising.
  4. Provide opportunities for unstructured outdoor play where children can make their own decisions.
  5. Remember that injuries are part of childhood development and rarely as serious as our fears suggest.

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