Beyond Broken Vows | Christian Marriage, Adultery, Pornography Addiction, Sexual Betrayal, Intimacy

129 | 12 Markers of a Trustworthy Husband (Markers 4, 5, and 6)


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Sexual betrayal destroys all trust in a marriage. When the lies and double life of an unfaithful husband (or wife) come to light, the betrayed spouse has no solid ground to stand on. What was real is instantly shattered and nothing is clear anymore.

 

It can leave an unfaithful spouse struggling for a way to regain the trust that was selfishly tossed aside. Trust is earned - not expected just by virtue of staying married.

 

But when trust is lost, trustworthiness displayed daily will not only help to restore personal integrity, but it can also pave the way for a betrayed spouse to consider trusting again.  

 

Last week, we did a deep dive into the first three of twelve markers of a trustworthy husband; he is transparent, vulnerable, and rigorously honest, has no secrets from his wife, and initiates difficult conversations. There was a lot packed into that episode so if you missed it we encourage you to go back and listen to episode 128.

 

Today we are going to unpack the next three markers of a trustworthy husband:

 

  1. A trustworthy husband listens to understand.
  2. A trustworthy husband apologizes to help his wife heal.
  3. A trustworthy husband prioritizes his wife above all other people.
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    Grab a pumpkin spiced something and tuck in for a revealing look into our recovery process as we discovered how a track record of trustworthiness helped ear back trust in our marriage.

     

    We pray this blesses you,

     

    Johnny and Emily

     

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    RELATED EPISODES:

    Episode 10. When “I’m Sorry” Isn’t Enough: 8 Steps to a Healing Apology

    Episode 52. What Is His Response To Her BIG Emotions After Porn-Fueled Infidelity?

    Episode 66. 5 Things a Betrayed Wife Needs...(Series) #2 Prioritize Her

     

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