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In this episode, Nicole Casey explores how to support autistic children during challenging moments by reframing behaviors as stress responses rather than defiance. She emphasizes the importance of understanding the underlying causes of these behaviors, which are often linked to the child's nervous system and anxiety levels. The conversation covers practical strategies for preventing dysregulation, recognizing early signs of stress, and the importance of co-regulation. Nicole also discusses the need for adults to adjust their expectations and environments to better support autistic children, ultimately advocating for a shift from control to connection in educational settings.

Takeaways

• Understanding behaviors as stress responses is crucial.
• Changing our perspective can significantly impact support.
• Recognizing early signs of dysregulation is key.
• The four F's of nervous system responses are fight, flight, freeze, and fawn.
• Preventing unnecessary stressors helps maintain regulation.
• Co-regulation is essential during challenging moments.
• Post-dysregulation, reconnecting with the child is important.
• Adjusting expectations can prevent meltdowns.
• Children do their best with the skills they have.
• Shifting from control to connection changes lives.