February 16, 2023

135: Erotic Endurance, Extended Climax, + Unconscious Power Dynamics with Court Vox

59 minutes

Sex isn’t as straightforward as we might put pressure on ourselves to believe. Great sex takes time in demystifying + reconstructing concepts, narratives, + skills.

Court Vox is a Certified Sex & Intimacy Coach Surrogate Partner Intern and Sacred Intimate based coach. He’s the Founder of The Body Vox and Co-Founder of SQUIRM. Court works with individuals from all genders with somatics, teaching them to come back to the relationship with the body to understand the internal cues that make or break our experience.

Like Damn, this conversation hit some nuances that might be what's affecting your sex life and you didn’t even know it.

In this episode, you’ll hear:

How to incorporate playfulness into your erotic states

Approaching sex for many different reasons... “What do you want to feel in this experience?”

Attuning yourself to the body’s knowing - Discerning fear vs excitement

Implied consent and direct consent, the discrepancy between mind and body

Erotic endurance + multiple-hour erotic experiences

Redefining orgasm, peak arousal, and ejaculation

Edging, peaking, and pleasure potentials

Does sex have to require a lot of energy? Redefining sex

Unconscious power dynamics in sex

Erotic games to play in the bedroom

Court’s journey of consciously exploring his shadow

Vulnerable experiences from Dr. Cat’s personal love life--lucky you

Questions from our audience:

My partner had an episiotomy… At times we struggle to feel each other during sex, advice?

Healthiest condoms for women who experience UTIs?

THE SKINNY ON OUR SEXY GUESTS

Court Vox is a Certified Sex & Intimacy Coach Surrogate Partner Intern, and Sacred Intimate based in Los Angeles CA. He is a member of the World Association of Sex Coaches, Founder of The Body Vox, and Co-Founder of SQUIRM. He is a guide for a vast spectrum of individuals and those in relationship/s seeking more in their erotic and intimate lives. When it comes to human connection and sexuality, some are beginning their journey while others have been pursuing erotic education and experiences for years. Court works gently with first-timers, as well as offers uncommon experiences to some of the world's most well-known sex educators and change-makers across multiple fields and disciplines. Court has become known for offering private, highly customized, exclusive experiences and travels extensively hosting and teaching workshops for all bodies, genders, and orientations. Court is also part of an elite team of sex educators that create the celebrated program for women, Back to the Body, which runs retreats all across the globe.

Website: www.thebodyvox.com

Sacred Mens Retreat: https://thebodyvox.com/sacred%3A-5-day-retreat

WANT MORE?

Sex Love Psychedelics Course: https://learn.sexloveyoga.com/SexLovePsychedelics

Sex + Psychedelics survey link https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/Q9FDNM2

Guide for vetting your psychedelic practitioner: https://learn.sexloveyoga.com/Vetting%20Your%20Guide

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