Honeydew Me

148. How To Ask For Rough Sex


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You deserve to have all your kinky little needs met, so in this episode, we're learning how to talk the talk and ask for what we want. Stella Harris, an intimacy educator, coach, mediator, and author of "Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships" is here to help us dig into the nitty gritty and develop our sexy communication skills. We cover:


  • Sexual communication basics
  • How to introduce and negotiate your kinky desires
  • Navigating shame around sexual interests
  • How to control your own "yuck" so you don't shame a partner
  • How to tell a partner you didn't like something you tried
  • How to make these conversations more fun

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