加入5月8日开营的第三期迷你退休营：https://flywithlily.com/discoverAn unexamined life is not worth living.未经审视的生活是不值得过的。Socrates believed that living a life where you live under the rules of others, in a continuous routine without examining what you actually want out of it is not worth living. This illustration of a lifestyle is what Socrates would describe an unexamined life. 苏格拉底相信如果你活出别人给的规则或日复一日的生活而不去审视自己在生命中想要获得什么的话，这样的生活是不值得活的。How did you get into astrology?（英语访谈4:50开始）Lily: Okay, tell us more about yourself. 和我们多说下自己。Bella: All right. Well as you know, I have many dreams and many passions, , but astrology has always been something that fascinated me. But it felt, it never felt within reach. I always felt I needed to find someone, an astrologer to give me the answers. And it was really frustrating cuz I had gone to a few different astrologers and they all kind of had their own opinions, but conflicting views. And I'm like, why is this so difficult to just find answers? And I remember one day was, it was during 2020, I had always known about astrology, but I didn't study it deeply until the pandemic. There was some great conjunction of two planets coming together and I knew nothing about it. But all of a sudden I was so excited about these planets coming together. I was telling everyone, I was like, these planets are gonna align and da da da.好的。 如你所知，我有很多梦想和很多爱好，但占星术一直是让我着迷的东西。 它从未感觉触手可及。 我一直觉得我需要找一个人，一个占星家来给我答案。我去了几个不同的占星家，他们都有自己的观点，但观点相互矛盾，这真的很令人沮丧。 我就在想，为什么找到答案这么难？ 我记得有一天，那是在 2020 年期间，直到大流行之前我才深入研究这个我一直了解的占星术。 我发现了两颗行星发生了某种伟大的合相，而我之前对此一无所知。 但是突然之间，我对这些行星的聚集感到非常兴奋。 我告诉大家，我当时想，这些行星会对齐，哒哒哒。And I got so passionate and people were like, well, what does it mean? I was like, well, I'm not really sure, but I'm so excited that the planets are coming together. And then I stopped for a second and I'm like, wait a minute. Where is this excitement coming from? Where is this enthusiasm coming from? There has to be something to this. So I'm like, well, why don't I just become my own astrologer? Why don't I start studying and figure out what all these planetary alignments mean? Cuz there's obviously something in me that it's sparking this fire in me that I should follow. And I always knew that you should just follow the things that bring you joy, that bring you excitement. And that's exactly what I did. And I never knew it was gonna lead to what it has led to for me. So I'm really happy that I went after that.我变得如此热情，人们就像，嗯，这是什么意思？ 我当时想，好吧，我不太确定，但我很兴奋行星会聚在一起。 然后我停了一秒钟，我想，等一下。 这种兴奋从何而来？ 这种热情从何而来？ 这一定是有原因的。 所以我想，好吧，为什么我不成为我自己的占星家呢？ 我为什么不开始研究并弄清楚所有这些行星排列的含义呢？ 因为很明显，我内心有某种东西正在点燃我内心的火焰，我应该追随它。 我一直都知道，你应该追随那些带给你快乐、兴奋的事情。 而这正是我所做的。 而且我从来不知道它会导致它为我带来的结果。 所以我真的很高兴我在那之后去了。I explored that enthusiasm. I was like, where is this coming from? So that's how I got into astrology. But also just through dating and real feeling out, there's certain signs that I just connect with and it's always the same signs. And then there's certain signs that I just feel were on a different dimension or plane and it’s always the same sign. I'm like, there has to be something to this too. Why is it that I only get along with certain signs? It just opened up this Pandora's box. And then I learned so much more about myself, more about others. Now I feel more understanding and compassionate towards people because of astrology. And a lot of people, they don't believe in it or whatever. But once you get really deep and you start looking into the history of it and see how so many different crazy historical events happened while these planets were aligned, you start to notice patterns and then you learn about yourself and you're like, wow, this explains so much.我探索了那种热情。 我当时想，这是从哪里来的？ 这就是我进入占星术的方式。 但也只是通过约会和进入现实去真正感受的时候，我才接触到某些星座，而且总是相同的星座。 然后有一些星座表明我只是觉得在不同的维度或平面上，而我总是同一个星座。 我想，这也必须有一些东西。 为什么我只与某些星座相处比较融洽？ 它只是打开了这个潘多拉魔盒。 然后我对自己有了更多的了解，对他人的了解也更多了。 现在因为占星术，我对人有了更多的理解和同情。 很多人，他们不相信它或其他什么。 但是一旦你真正深入，你开始研究它的历史，看看当这些行星对齐时发生了多少不同的疯狂历史事件，你开始注意到模式，然后你了解你自己，你就像，哇， 这解释了很多。Now I know myself