🎙小百合的約會筆記:如何留下最好的第一印象?
「First impressions last.」第一印象往往影響深遠。今天我們會探討第一印象的重要性,分享一個個人故事,提供一些有用的小技巧,並學習五個與第一印象相關的英語詞彙!
🔹 一句關於第一印象的中英語格言
"You never get a second chance to make a first impression."
「你永遠不會有第二次機會來創造第一印象。」
這句話的意思是,當你第一次見到某人時,你給對方的印象將可能深深影響你們的關係,所以我們要好好把握每一次見面機會!
🔹 一個關於第一印象的個人故事
🎙 Host (Lily):
I want to share a personal story about my first impression of someone I met through Tinder.
(我想分享一個關於我如何在 Tinder 上認識某人的故事。)
I met Matic, a guy from Slovenia, at a café near Chingmai University.
(我在清邁大學附近的一家咖啡館見到了 Mattic,他來自斯洛維尼亞。)
At first, I thought he was a bit shy, but after talking for a while, I realized he was very talkative and deep-thinking.
(剛開始,我覺得他有點害羞,但聊了一會兒後,我發現他其實很健談,也很有想法。)
💡 Matic 透過 Tinder 的個人簡介對我產生了第一印象。他說:
🗣 "She had a really nice description which got me intrigued to her. And it was in English, which is a rare case for Tinder in Thailand."
(「她的個人簡介寫得很好,讓我對她產生了興趣。而且是用英語寫的,這在泰國的 Tinder 上很少見。」)
🎙光是簡介就能影響對方對你的第一印象!這也提醒我們,不只是外表,言語表達也是建立好印象的重要關鍵!
當我們終於在清邁大學湖畔的咖啡館見面時,他的想法得到了確認。他說:
🗣 "So the first impression is now that we are sitting on the coffee. So basically it confirmed what I had in mind. Like, she is a really interesting person. I think we can have a really deep conversation because I hate small talks."
(「當我們真正坐下來喝咖啡時,我的第一印象被證實了。她是一個很有趣的人,我們可以有很深入的對話,因為我討厭表面的寒暄。」)
🎙第一印象的影響持續到我們的談話內容。 我們的聊天十分自然開放,讓 Matic 覺得很驚訝,因為他通常不會在第一次見面時分享太多個人故事。他補充說:
🗣 "I tend not to share things of my life with someone that I meet for the first time. And I think I'm sharing quite a lot with her, so that means that she's a really trustworthy person."
(「我通常不會在第一次見面時分享太多個人故事,但這次我分享了很多,這意味著她是一個很值得信任的人。」)
🎙所以,第一印象不只是「看到」對方的樣子,更是從對話、肢體語言和相處方式中,慢慢建立起的感覺。
💡 他會再次約我出去嗎?(Would He Ask Me Out Again?)
Matic 的回答是:
🗣 "I would ask you out again because I think there’s a lot of things that are still hidden in there that needs to be discovered. Definitely!"
(「我會再約妳,因為我覺得還有很多值得探索的事,絕對會!」)
🎙第一印象並不代表全部,但它確實影響我們是否願意更進一步了解對方。 那麼,如何讓自己的第一印象更加分呢?接下來,我將分享 5 個簡單實用的第一印象提升技巧! 🎧✨
🎙 Host (Lily):
💡 第一印象是什麼?(What is a first impression?)
First impressions are the initial thoughts or feelings someone has about you within the first few seconds of meeting.
(第一印象是別人在見到你的前幾秒內,對你產生的最初想法或感覺。)
🌎 為什麼第一印象很重要?(Why are first impressions important?)
Because they can influence how people perceive you, trust you, and interact with you.
(因為它們會影響別人如何看待你、是否信任你,以及與你互動的方式。)
🔹 5 個讓你提升第一印象的技巧(Tips for a Great First Impression)
1️⃣ Dress appropriately. 👔
(穿著得體。)
You don’t have to wear a suit, but dressing neatly shows respect.
(你不需要穿西裝,但乾淨整潔的穿著能顯示你的尊重。)
2️⃣ Smile genuinely. 😊
(真誠地微笑。)
A smile makes you look friendly and approachable.
(微笑能讓你看起來更友好、更容易親近。)
3️⃣ Make eye contact. 👀
(保持眼神交流。)
It shows confidence and attentiveness.
(這能展現自信,讓人感覺你在專心聆聽。)
4️⃣ Listen actively. 👂
(積極傾聽。)
People love to be heard. Ask questions and show interest.
(人們喜歡被聆聽,提出問題並展現興趣。)
5️⃣ Be yourself. 🌟
(做你自己。)
Authenticity is key. People appreciate honesty and sincerity.
(真誠是關鍵,人們會欣賞你的誠實和真摯。)
🔹 5 個與第一印象相關的英語單詞
🎧 在這集播客裡,我們學習了 5 個與 第一印象 有關的英語詞彙!
1️⃣ First impression(第一印象)
👉 Your first impression matters a lot in a job interview.
👉(在工作面試中,第一印象非常重要。)
2️⃣ Approachable(平易近人)
👉 A friendly smile makes you more approachable.
👉(友好的微笑會讓你看起來更容易親近。)
3️⃣ Charismatic(有魅力的)
👉 She is a charismatic speaker who captivates her audience.
👉(她是一位有魅力的演講者,能吸引觀眾。)
4️⃣ Genuine(真誠的)
👉 A genuine compliment can make someone's day.
👉(一個真誠的讚美可以讓別人開心一整天。)
5️⃣ Confidence(自信)
👉 Confidence is key when making a first impression.
👉(在建立第一印象時,自信是關鍵。)
🔹 行動呼籲(Call to Action)
🎙 Host (Lily):
Alright, my dear listeners, now it’s your turn!
(好了,親愛的聽眾們,現在輪到你們了!)
1️⃣ Think about a time when you made a strong first impression.
(回想一下你曾經留下深刻第一印象的時刻。)
2️⃣ Share your experience in the comments or send me a voice message!
(在評論區分享你的經驗,或者給我發語音訊息!)
3️⃣ Try using today’s vocabulary in real life!
(嘗試在日常生活中使用今天學到的詞彙!)
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