Ali & Erica are reviewing the first dating book Ali ever read (15 years ago!!) this week - Have Him At Hello by Rachel Greenwald. The author interviewed 1,000 men about why they didn’t want second dates and we’re debating how her findings apply to modern dating. Ali & Erica both identify (mostly) with The Boss Lady…how about you?

In Updates, Ali & Erica both receive “Merry Christmas” texts from men past and Ali gets the ick on Hinge.

Timestamps: Topic talk begins at around minute 36.

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