Dr. John Gottman, a famous couple’s therapist and relationship researcher, has identified four warning signs that a relationship is doomed. They are criticism, contempt, defensiveness and stonewalling. If any of those are occurring between two people, he’s found that the relationship won’t last.

 

And that makes sense, right? They are sort of obvious red flags.

 

But in this episode, Roy identifies five subtle issues, dynamics that are not as obvious, yet just as dangerous and destructive. Being aware of the not-so-obvious issues that can ruin a relationship equips and prepares you for a healthy, sustainable, intimate relationship.

 

You will learn…

…why relational warning signs should be treated like medical warning signs;

…the antidotes to criticism, contempt, defensiveness & stonewalling;

…the five subtle signs a relationship is headed for trouble;

…and what to do about the subtle signs when/if they show up in your relationship;

…and much more!

 

Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:

 

Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com

 

Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/

 

Roy’s 3 Books:

·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR

·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh

·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K

 

 

Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/

 

Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at [email protected] or call his cell 407-687-3387.

 

The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.