Change isn’t just about willpower—it’s about resilience, mindset shifts, community and strategy. Whether you're healing from trauma, overcoming self-doubt, or stepping into your strength, real transformation requires more than just a desire to change and you can do it because you're a survivor!

For decades, psychologists and change theorists have studied why some people transform their lives while others stay stuck. The original Change Formula, created by Beckhard and Harris, is: (D x V x F) > R

(Dissatisfaction x Vision x First Steps must be greater than Resistance)

But real, lasting change goes beyond just taking the first step. It requires community and consistency. That’s why I’ve revised the formula to reflect what truly makes transformation possible: (D x V x F) ᶜ x K > R

(Dissatisfaction x Vision x First Steps, to the power of Community, multiplied by Consistency, must be greater than Resistance)

In this episode, I break down how to apply this resilience-based formula to your healing journey, self-worth, and breaking free from old patterns. Plus, we’ll tackle the biggest roadblocks—your inner critic, fear, and resistance to change—and how to push through them with self-compassion and strategy.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

The original Change Formula and why it works—but also why it’s incomplete

How resilience, community, and consistency make change sustainable

How to quiet your inner critic and build a mindset that supports growth

Why trauma can make change feel impossible—and how to move forward anyway

How to use (D x V x F)ᶜ x K > R to create change and reclaim your strength

Small, actionable steps to help you overcome resistance and take the first step

Key Mindset Shifts:

• Resilience isn’t just about bouncing back—it’s about learning to rebuild.
• Your inner critic is the biggest liar you know—don’t let it dictate your story.
• Healing is nonlinear, but every small step forward is still progress.
• You don’t have to do this alone—community and consistency matter.

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