I love low maintenance things, and I put a lot of value on being low maintenance in my marriage. But with the tools I now have, I can see that in my previous marriage the things I considered would me a low maintenance spouse, were actually very damaging and hurtful, and in reality, very high maintenance that added to the demise of my marriage. Now I still value being and having a low maintenance relationship, but it looks almost the opposite of what I used to engage in. Let's take a look!