249 - Stages of Grief

Working with Interpreters in Therapy - Waking Dreams

Starting off 2023 with Episode 249 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly return with two familiar topics - and a new addition, 'Practice Today', where we look at contemporary developments and challenges you may face in the therapy room.

In today's podcast:

Returning with 'Theory in Practice', today we look at Elisabeth Kübler-Ross' stages of grief.

Then in our new section 'Practice Today' we look at working with interpreters in therapy.

And finally, returning once again is 'Practice Matters' where today Rory speaks with Allan Frater about waking dreams.

Elisabeth Kübler-Ross' Stages of Grief [starts at 02:54 mins]

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You've probably heard the 5 stages of grief: denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance - and in this section, Rory and Ken will explore these stages in more depth and how they may present in the therapy room:

The 5 stages of grief are often presented in a linear format - however, this isn't always the case. The stages can present in any order, and for some people, not all stages will be experienced.

A client may experience retrospective bargaining - thinking things like 'if I had done this…', 'if only I had thought to…'.

The theory of the stages was put together from observing people who were dying - this means it may not always translate to those who have lost someone.

The theory has been adapted and modified since its initial release.

Using the stages as an example, we can normalise a client's feelings of anger - removing some of the guilt/shame they may experience from feeling this way.

Any of the stages can persist long after the initial loss - they can especially be triggered by things such as birthdays or anniversaries.

All of the stages can be reverted into - acceptance isn't a finality.

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Working with Interpreters in Therapy [starts at 19:51 mins]

In the therapy room, you may be in a situation where your client is unable to communicate with you using spoken English. If you have a client that speaks a language you don't or communicates using sign language - you will need to find a way to understand and respond to them.

The key points of this section on working with interpreters in therapy include:

If you choose to look for an in-person interpreter or translator for counselling - you shouldn't use a family member/friend of the client. There may be things the client doesn't feel comfortable sharing with them in the room, or the translation you receive may be filtered.

When you are given a translation from a third party, the client's words are now coming from the translator's frame of reference. This is something important to be aware of when working with interpreters in therapy.

Keep a close eye on the clients' body language - look out for the emotions they are conveying through this.

If you decide to look into using translating software (such as Google Translate), there are some things you need to consider:

There is an assumption of literacy, your client may not be able to read and/or write.

There is a chance of the translation being inaccurate.

If a client is typing their material into this translation software,