What if the biggest blocker to a thriving sex life isn't desire, kids, or schedules—but your mindset? In this episode, master coach Jody Moore joins me to show how small shifts in thinking can create big changes in intimacy.

We cover:

• Why "keeping your spouse happy" quietly destroys connection

• The surprising reason lower-desire partners stay stuck

• Common mindsets that sabotage sexual arousal

• Clean pain vs. dirty pain in marriage

• And don't miss Jody's black-belt sex tip!

Sextember is on! Make September your 30-day intimacy reset inside the Intimately Us app. Plus:

• Virtual Getaway – The Anatomy of Arousal (Sept 26–27): a spicy, nourishing, live, at-home retreat for couples

• Coming next week: Sex Seminar with 25 experts—join our email list for details

Ready to think differently and feel closer? Hit play—and let's get your marriage on.