I often hear people use phrases like, 'I hate change', or 'I don't like change', or 'I'm not good at change.' And though these may seem like helpful phrases to express our discomfort with change, they are actually making the change more difficult for us. To complicate these types of phrases, using them also distracts us from the actual feeling we are having and begins to create disconnection in our relationships. Let's talk about it.