PODCAST #287 

HOW TO GET RID OF SOCIAL ANXIETY AND SELF-DOUBT

Today on The Confidence Podcast we're chatting about

* The classifiers and fine points between social anxiety and social confidence

* The difference between humility, pride and self-assurance

* 7 simple ways to silence your inner self-doubt

This podcast is sponsored in part today by my newest program, The Donut Diet.  It's time to stand up to the bully of shame around food and around your body in your life and to taste the sweetness that life (and food) have to offer!  The Donut Diet is only available for a few weeks, so if you are ready to be done with emotional eating, then get started now at www.thedonutdiet.com

QUOTES ON SOCIAL CONFIDENCE:

Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind. ~Dr. Seuss

Whether you think you can or think you can't— you are right. ~Henry Ford

The best way to gain self-confidence is to do what you are afraid to do. ~Author Unknown

Everybody ought to do at least two things each day that he hates to do, just for practice. ~William James

“Self-consciousness is the enemy of all art, be it acting, writing, painting, or living itself, which is the greatest art of all.”

― Ray Bradbury

THE SMALL STEPS TO SHIFT FROM SOCIAL ANXIETY TO SOCIAL CONFIDENCE

Put yourself in everyone else's insecurity

Focus on love and kindness

Realize people are thinking less about you and more about themselves

Stop waiting and start leading - opening conversations

Remember that everyone is holding their breath and waiting to be "part of"

WARBY PARKER SPONSORSHIP

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THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN PRIDE AND SELF-ASSURANCE 

The prideful person doesn't: 

accept help or admit to needing help

accept that they can be wrong

accept that they are obsessed with self-glorification

take others into account

focus on building others up