PODCAST #290

SELF-CONFIDENCE SECRETS I WANT MY DAUGHTER TO KNOW

In this episode of #TheConfidnecePodcast we're chatting about:

* The self-confidence secrets that a confidence coach wants to be sure she is passing down to her daughter

* An inside look to how I am raising my daughter to learn and master these secrets

* How to master some of these secrets for yourself, no matter your current age

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THE SELF-CONFIDENCE SECRETS I WANT MY DAUGHTER TO KNOW

Be proud of the space you take up in this world. 

* Stand tall.

* Be the first to say hello.

* Lead with a smile.

* Don't apologize for who you are.

* Know that you are here for a reason and pursue that purpose.

Speak up, always.

* For yourself.

* For how you feel.

* To yourself about how you feel.

* For others.

* For what is right.

* For what you want.

* For your needs and desires.

Push the limits.

* Stretch your beliefs.

* Always think bigger.

* Believe in yourself beyond what seems normal.

* Speak up and always ask for more.

* Expect the best.

* Anticipate a terrific adventure.

* Work hard and be proud of yourself for your committed ethic.

Love people extravagantly. 

* Be proactively kind

* Remember that people need your love

* Recharge your love by plugging into God daily as a source

* Love does and wins; the answer is always: love everyone, always.

* To love others you must love yourself.

Shine, baby, shine. 

* Pursue your interests, unashamedly.

* Laughter is a gift of yourself to yourself and to the world

* Have an internal sense of self worth and self-respect

* Remember that other peoples actions and opinions aren't your responsibility

* Control what you can control (you)

* Have clear goals and embrace risk and failure

* Do one thing every day that scares you

* Never settle for less than you deserve, but always be grateful for what you have and for doing your best

* Most people are more insecure than you think: love on them. Build them up.

AN INSIDE LOOK TO HOW I AM PARENTING THESE SECRETS INTO MY DAUGHTER'S LIFE

We have conversations around failure.

We are a household that celebrates humility and forgiveness.

We wrote out our family values.

We encourage adventure.

We open up space for a voice to be heard - even our 1-year-olds and our dog's.

We do not tolerate limited thinking - we challenge out of the box thinking.