Divorce is a major life event, and one that can leave us feeling as though our whole world has been upended, because, often it has been.  It can be really tough to get our feet on solid ground with all of the emotional and even physical turmoil that divorce creates.  How do we start to heal from all of the pain?  And how do we move forward into the life we imagined waited for us outside of our terribly dysfunctional marriage?