Dr. Adam Dorsay, host of the SuperPsyched podcast, explores the concept of 'both and' thinking with Dr. Wendy Smith, professor at the University of Delaware. They discuss how simplistic binary questions can lead to problematic outcomes, especially in complex situations like parenting, corporate decisions, and political discourse. Dr. Smith highlights the importance of embracing paradoxical thinking to foster better decision-making and creativity. Their conversation delves into integrating competing demands in personal and professional contexts, enhancing relationships, and navigating life’s complexities with a mindset that values nuance and interconnectedness.

00:00 Introduction to SuperPsyched

00:28 The Problem with Binary Thinking

01:08 Introducing Dr. Wendy Smith

02:16 The Concept of Both/And Thinking

05:13 Practical Applications of Both/And Thinking

07:14 Challenges in Promoting Nuanced Thinking

13:26 Both/And Thinking in Relationships

21:04 Paradox Theory and Parenting

25:02 Balancing Connection and Separation

25:24 Innovation and Existing Products: The Tightrope Walk

27:15 Parenting: Balancing Autonomy and Authority

29:05 The Concept of Consistent Inconsistency

30:22 The Power of Both-And Thinking

32:09 The Placebo and Nocebo Effect

34:44 Coopetition: Collaborating with Competitors

42:36 The Importance of Listening

Helpful Links:

Dr .Wendy K Smith Website

Dr. Wendy K Smith Linkedin

Both/And Thinking: Embracing Creative Tensions to Solve Your Toughest Problems Book