2HotWives - A Girl's Guide to Unconventional Sex

If you are looking for a sexy vacation, a swinger cruise might be for you.  An adult-themed, couples-only cruise is the ultimate party and playground for open-minded adults. If you want to hook up, there are plenty of shipmates ready to help you fulfill your fantasies, whether mild or wild. In this episode, the Wives explore the basics you need to know before booking a swingers' cruise. First, before you start your New Year's Resolutions, indulge in the The Dirty Snowman, a very boozy milkshake, while listening to this episode’s Hot Tale.  Ams attends a low key house party and gets a little action without taking off her boots (or putting down her drink)!

Next, Kat and Ams get ready to ready to board their first swinger cruise, including what to pack, how to meet people in advance and strategizing on how to make connections.    

In order to get educated on the benefits of a swinger cruise, the Wives interview Miss Lynn, founder of TheSwingerCruise.com. 

Finally, the Wives assign themselves sexy homework: All Aboard Bliss Oasis, 2021!

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About Miss Lynn

Miss Lynn is honored to be known as the 'Official Swinging 101 Educator' for Bliss Cruise.  

Lynn is a Mind-Body Connection Expert. Her superpower is an intuitive view - it’s as if she can see right into someone and know what is holding them back. And the good news is she also sees simple solutions to remove those barriers.

In addition to being the founder of TheSwingerCruise.com she is a Master Hypnotist, and hypnotherapist specializing in Rapid Transformation. Studied at the University of Iowa and postgraduate at Aurora University.

Does cannabis make sex better? The Wives report back on their sexy homework: exploring different ways to ingest cannabis (vape pen, edible and flower), keeping a cannabis journal, and what sex was like when getting high.

First, check out Kat's latest cocktail: the Ginger Martini. If you find yourself stuck in the kitchen during this holiday season, why not take some time to make your own ginger-infused vodka while listening to Kat's Hot Tale: A unicorn threesome gets downright silly with the addition of Giggly Bears...

Next, the Wives share their cannabis and sex experiences, including vacation highs and mid-day sex, controlling dosages with edibles, and how cannabis impacted mood, arousal and orgasms.

Finally, the Wives share Just the Tips on how to experiment with cannabis and sex in a safer, mindful way.

While the exact relationship between cannabis and sex has not been sufficiently researched, more and more evidence indicates the connection itself is very real. Part 1: Cannabis and Sex brought a huge response from listeners who shared their stories of how adding a bit of cannabis can bring a thrill to the bedroom. Listeners reported more spontaneous arousal, stronger orgasms and greater sexual satisfaction.

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Mentioned in this Episode

2HotWives Spotify Hot List

Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski

Galaxy Lights

Learn More About Cannabis and Sex

https://www.mdlinx.com/article/marijuana-s-unexpected-effects-on-sex/1e6b2latTgUvynuzKJXaOd

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6522945/

https://www.self.com/gallery/how-cannabis-affects-sex

https://inhalemd.com/boston-marijuana-doctor-male-female-sexual-enhancement/ (including telehealth visits)

https://www.marijuanamoment.net/women-who-use-marijuana-more-often-have-better-sex-study-says/

https://med.stanford.edu/news/all-news/2017/10/regular-marijuana-use-linked-to-more-sex.html

Special Thanks to Eli Forster for providing editing support on this episode! https://www.instagram.com/eli_s0und/

Cannabis can make for a better sexual experience. It's science!

If we could sell you a product that reduced anxiety, helped you feel more mindful, increased arousal and heighten orgasm for more than a third of women who try it, would you be interested? Of course you would! What's the catch? Well, it's technically illegal. Nevertheless, the Wives brave the possibility of jail time (or, more likely, a tiny little fine) to bring you their hands-on experience of cannabis use and sex.

First, wrap up in a cozy sweater and sip a delicious Vanilla Honey Cider while listening to this episode's Hot Tale. Ams has a major change of heart regarding newbie whispering (..didn't she used to say, "I hold dicks, not hands."?) when she and Mr. Ams have mind-blowing experience with a new to swinging couple at podcast-a-palooza.

Next, the Wives explore some of the benefits of cannabis use, including why cannabis might be better for you than alcohol, the components on cannabis that get you high, edibles versus smoking or vaping, as well as some of the risks of cannabis use.

To get a sexpert's opinion, the Wives interview the CannaSexual herself Ashley Manta.

Finally, the Wives assign themselves sexy homework: Kat wants to explore making her own gummies and cocktails with Cannabis tincture and Ams is going to keep a cannabis journal of her psychedelic sexploration.

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About Ashley

Ashley Manta is an award-winning sex educator and coach and has become a sought-after authority on mindfully combining sex and cannabis as part of her CannaSexual® brand. She is the author of The CBD Solution: Sex, published in 2020 in conjunction with Merry Jane and Chronicle Books. She writes for Playboy as a Playboy Advisor. She completed her certification as a Bodysex® Facilitator after studying with legendary pleasure pioneer Betty Dodson. She facilitates retreats and workshops at resorts and festivals around the world. She is a brand ambassador for Sybian.

Are you ready to get the inside scoop on a public dungeon experience? The Wives report back on their sexy homework, including attending a dungeon newbie night and an EDM and play party.

First, if you love pumpkin but are sick to death of a PSL, give this Pumpkin Rum Cider a try, while Kat shares a Hot Tale with Mr. Ams on the side of a mountain!

Next, Kat shares her experience with a dungeon newbie night, complete with tickle bench and Shibari rope tie tutorials.

Then, Ams takes it up a notch by attending an Alien Invasion EDM dance and play party at her local dungeon, where she volunteers to get flogged on a St. Andrew's cross.

Finally, the first share Just the Tips so you can have a fun and successful dungeon experience.

A dungeon is a great place to explore kinkier, edgier play, surrounded by people who LOVE to demonstrate their skills. You can learn, you can watch and you can experience kink including spanking, flogging, bondage and suspension. You can also use equipment that you might not be willing to invest in at home, such as St. Andrew's cross's (Ams' favorite!), hooks and bars or suspension play, spanking benches and impact toys.

Inspired to create your own personal dungeon or venture into BSDM play? Check out our website, with articles, bonus content, products we love and more.

We love our listeners and we want to hear from you! Call the 2HotWives voicemail at 571-310-3829 and share your favorite hot tales and sexy stories. Or ask us questions. We may feature you on the show!

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Is a BDSM dungeon on your sexual bucket list? You might be surprised about how actual dungeons operate. In this episode, the Wives explore public BDSM dungeons, including an interview with Dungeon East owner Mistress Justine Cross.

First, get ready for Halloween with this episode's cocktail: the Black Widow, while Ams shares her first experience as a unicorn to another couple.

Next, the Wives discuss what a dungeon is and why you might want to visit one.

A BDSM dungeon is a room or space designated specifically for BDSM (i.e. - Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadism and Masochism) play or scenes. Public dungeons can be found in fetish studios, sex work spaces, sex clubs, warehouses and nightclubs (sometimes during specific fetish parties and themed nights) and are usually open to the public.

A dungeon is a great place to explore kinkier, edgier play, surrounded by people who LOVE to demonstrate their skills. You can learn, you can watch and you can experience kink including spanking, flogging, bondage and suspension. You can also experience toys and equipment that you might not be willing to invest in at home, such as St. Andrew's cross's (Ams' favorite!), hooks and bars or suspension play, spanking benches and impact toys.

To get an expert's opinion, the Wives interview Mistress Justine Cross, owner of Dungeon East in Los Angeles, California.

Finally, the Wives set themselves sexy homework: visiting an actual dungeon for newbie night...and more…

About Mistress Justine Cross she/her

Mistress Justine is a professional BDSM consultant and lifestyle Dominatrix based in Los Angeles. She is the owner of Dungeon East, Los Angeles's premiere dungeon studio. With over 10 years' experience as a lifestyle Dominatrix and BDSM consultant, Mistress Justine's expertise and creativity has been called on for dozens of print, radio, and video productions. She has appeared as herself on Funny or Die, A&E, Lifetime and VH1. She has appeared on numerous podcasts including Savage Love, Dear Prudie and American Sex and for a number of campaigns and projects for major brands such an educational intro to BDSM series for Yandy. Extensively interviewed and profiled, Mistress Justine has been featured in Los Angeles Magazine, Playboy, Nylon, LA Weekly, Time Out Los Angeles, Buzzfeed, Salon, Vice, Huffington Post and The Guardian. Internationally recognized and followed, she typically travels all over the world.

Justine runs BDSFemme - a play party party for cis and trans women and co-hosts Deviant, an all gender queer play party. With the mainstream growing more aware of BDSM, Mistress Justine's opportunities to educate and correct the kink curious have expanded, and she's been invited to be a guest speaker or teach classes on BDSM, safer sex practices, consent, and more at places like UCLA,Los Angeles LGBT Center and Folx.

Justine loves oyster happy hours, craft cocktails and cats. She is fully vaccinated and still taking COVID precautions very seriously. Subscribe to her newsletter her. Follow her on twitter: justineplays and instagram/clubhouse/tiktok: thejustinecross

Contact: [email protected] or 323-739-4562

Website: https://www.losangelesdominatrix.com/

Let's put hotwifing to bed, together.

Are you curious how the Wives completed their sexy homework on hotwifing? Did the single guys meet all of their expectations? How did the hot husbands react? Listen in to found out!

First, if it's feeling a little nippy outside, check out tonight's cocktail, the Caffe 43, a yummy creamy coffee cocktail, while listening to this episode's Hot Tale. Kat and Mr. Kat check out a high-end strip club with another couple, then they take it back to the hotel for a private striptease.

Next, the Wives go into all the details of the sexy homework, including finding single guys on lifestyle dating sites, first dates, follow up dates and how to pick up the pieces when things don't go as planned.

Finally, the Wives give their Just the Tips on their hotwifing experience.

Featured on this episode:

Casual Toys

Womanizer Premium - Red/Gold

Silicone Butt Plug Set

Learn more about Hotwifing:

https://www.refinery29.com/en-us/hotwife-cuckold-married-sex-wednesday-martin-untrue

https://www.yourtango.com/experts/mr-mike-hatcher/why-women-would-enjoy-and-benefit-hotwifing

https://medium.com/sexography/hot-to-be-a-hotwife-629080c299df

Check out our events page: https://www.2hotwives.com/events

We love our listeners and we want to hear from you! Call the 2HotWives voicemail at 571-310-3829 and share your favorite hot tales and sexy stories. Or ask us questions. We may feature you on the show!

How to find the 2HotWives:

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Are the 2HotWives actually hotwives? The answer is not so simple. In this episode, the Wives explore the kink known as hotwifing.

First, mix up tonight's cocktail, the Ginger Femme Chaude, while listening to this episode's Hot Tale. Ams recounts how a new sex toy leads to super-hot Sunday morning play with Mr. Ams.

Next, the Wives dive deep into the definition of a hotwife and hotwifing, including what it isn't (i.e. - cuckholding, swinging or a hall pass). In particular, they discuss a husband's role in the kink. Is it to control? To be submissive? Bestow his wife's"favors"? Tune in to find out.

To get another hotwife's perspective, Ams and Kat interview Brenna from the Front Porch Swingers on her experience with hotwifing, including attending a recent Hotwife specific meet and greet!

Finally, the Wives explore their sexy homework: how to find a single guy or bull (is there a difference?) and setting up a date.

If you are as confused by the term hotwife as we are, this is a can't miss episode.

Featured on this episode:

Casual Toys

Silicone Butt Plug Set

Front Porch Swingers

Learn more about Hotwifing:

https://www.refinery29.com/en-us/hotwife-cuckold-married-sex-wednesday-martin-untrue

https://www.yourtango.com/experts/mr-mike-hatcher/why-women-would-enjoy-and-benefit-hotwifing

https://medium.com/sexography/hot-to-be-a-hotwife-629080c299df

Special Thanks to Eli Forster for Editing this Episode! Learn more about Eli:

Eli is a young audio editor and sound designer just starting out in the world of podcasting. She's looking to make her mark in the audio industry and where better to start than with the amazing 2HotWives podcast! insta - https://www.instagram.com/eli_s0und/ twitter - @eli_forster

Check out our events page: https://www.2hotwives.com/events

We love our listeners and we want to hear from you! Call the 2HotWives voicemail at 571-310-3829 and share your favorite hot tales and sexy stories. Or ask us questions. We may feature you on the show!

How to find the 2HotWives:

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Are you curious about a professional erotic massage? The Wives book sensual and fantasy massages at Desire RM and they are ready to tell you all about it! Erotic massage is a fantastic way get into a sexy mindset, amp up foreplay and reach new orgasmic heights.

We know you aren't ready for summer to end, so mix up a batch of Watermelon Margaritas while listening to a super-sexy Hot Tale! Kat makes an immediate connection with a sexy cowboy at Desire and the sparks fly when she tries a new kind of pole dancing (...did I see a Groupon for that?)

Next the Wives complete their homework erotic massage by booking a special spa treatment at Desire.

Learn about about the sensual massage and fantasy massage experience, including the sensual massage and the Five Senses Fantasy Massage.

Many couples swear by the sensual massage experience ("so nice, I did it twice"), but did it leave the Wives in multi-orgasmic bliss? Tune it to find out.

We love our listeners and we want to hear from you! Call the 2HotWives voicemail at 571-310-3829 and share your favorite hot tales and sexy stories. We may feature you on the show!

More About Desire Erotic Massage:

Desire Sensual Massage for Couples

We invite you and your partner to cross the threshold, converting fantasy into reality. Our Desire Sensual Massage for Couples combines an otherwise classic, relaxing experience, with the art of seduction. This journey begins with a refreshing, aphrodisiac beverage in our Jacuzzi, followed by a neck, back, head and sensual body massage, specifically designed to take you to the limits of seduction, preparing you for lovemaking with your partner. This entire ritual takes place inside the Jacuzzi (Guests only), and once the massage has concluded the therapists will exit, leaving you in privacy, to finish your erotic experience any way you desire.

Featured on this episode:

Desire RM

Bliss Cruise

Coconut Lime Massage Oil

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Are you ready to lay back, relax and get touched ALL OVER? Erotic massage is a fantastic way get into a sexy mindset, amp up foreplay and reach new orgasmic heights.

For many women, the idea of an erotic massage, whether it is with their primary partner or with someone new, is a huge turn on. The problem is that women don't have any place to go to look for information. So the wives are here to educate you on erotic massage options.

First, mix up this season's most sophisticated cocktail, a Blood Orange Manhattan, while listening to this week's Hot Tale! When Ams has a fantasy about meeting a sexy stranger at a bar, Mr. Ams and their new friend, Scarlett, step up to make her fantasy come true.

Next the Wives explore erotic massage, the use of massage techniques by one person on another person's erogenous zones for their sexual pleasure. Erotic massage is used by some people on occasion as a part of sex, either as foreplay or as the final sex act. It doesn't require any special skills, but there are a few ways to make the experience better: set the mood, take your time and use lots of oil or lube (of course!)

To take things to the next level, the Wives interview the sweet and sexy Lauren from Room77 podcast about her Art of Touch workshop.

Finally, the Wives discuss their sexy homework assignments: it's time go to the professionals and get a true erotic massage! There is a large commercial erotic massage industry in some countries and cities, which may call their establishments massage parlors, spas, or saunas. If you look at the industry of erotic massage, or search for it online it has a super-seedy, male-pleasure dominating vibe. With names like "Happy Ending Massage" or links to porn hub. It can seem misogynistic, objectifying and transactional. So, the Wives consider ways to make this experience as empowering and sexy as possible.

Make tonight's sex the ultimate in self-care. Use your words and ask your partner to give you an erotic massage!

We love our listeners and we want to hear from you! Call the 2HotWives voicemail at 571-310-3829 and share your favorite hot tales and sexy stories. We may feature you on the show!

More About Erotic Massage:

Workshops

• http://velvetlipsllc.com/empowered-sexuality/erotic-massage-class/
• https://intimacy-institute.teachable.com/p/learn-erotic-massage
• https://room77life.com/art-of-touch-couples-workshops/

Article about a male masseuse who focuses on female pleasure: https://intimacy-institute.teachable.com/p/learn-erotic-massage

Books - How to

• https://www.amazon.com/Ultimate-Erotic-Massage-Complete-Hands/dp/0756657261
• https://www.amazon.com/dp/B002JF1MZG/ref=dp-kindle-redirect?_encoding=UTF8&btkr=1

Books - Erotica

• https://www.goodreads.com/list/show/87608.Massage_Erotica

Featured on this episode:

Desire RM

Room 77 - Art of Touch

Art of Touch Playlist

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Where's the best place to do sexy homework? An adults-only, clothing optional resort! The 2HotWives record LIVE from the Desire Riveria Maya Resort to recount their adventures in seduction and foreplay. First, mix up some summer sweetness with a Frozen Peach Bellini.

Next, Kat gives Mr. Kat the ultimate fantasy experience, a unicorn threesome.

Then, the Wives share their sexy homework experiences. They start with new seduction techniques, dirty talk, and eroticizng daily activities. Next, they tackle new foreplay strategies, including the full body orgasm exercise and Hot Damn! penis play. And, since sex is better with friends, they recruit couples from all over the Desire Resorts to join in on Erogenous Zone mapping. Spoiler alert! Touching feet was a total turn on for many of the ladies who participated!

Finally, the Wives share Just the Tips on better techniques to seduce and play with your lover (or lovers)!

About the Book:

Wouldn't you like to tune into your own desires, become a better communicator, and be a more confident, passionate, and attentive lover?

Let this book take you on a journey of sexual exploration. As you explore your own learning and seduction styles (and your lover's), you'll discover and experiment with new and exciting ways to stimulate arousal and deepen intimacy: verbal, emotional, and digital seduction, foreplay, eroticizing daily actions, games, fantasy play, mindfulness, and more. Packed with practical exercises, techniques, and creative ideas, this inclusive guide is a surefire way for folks of all genders to master the art of seduction.

Approach your lovers with the confidence and comfort you deserve! Whether you are adding to your repertoire for later or striving to please your current lover, you'll discover thrilling new pathways to pleasure and intimacy.

We love our listeners and we want to hear from you! Call the 2HotWives voicemail at 571-310-3829 and share your favorite hot tales and sexy stories. We may feature you on the show!

Featured on this episode:

Desire RM

Bliss Cruise

Sex with Dr. Jess

Sex Down South

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