When you stop saying what you want, desire doesn't disappear. It goes underground.

If you are a man who feels disconnected in your relationship, unsure how to express desire without pressure, or quietly compromising more than you admit, this episode will change how you see intimacy.

You'll learn how emotional honesty fuels attraction, how to talk about sex without killing the mood, and why withholding yourself for "peace" slowly erodes connection. Learn why most men unknowingly trade desire for harmony, how to reconnect to what you actually want, and how authentic communication can reignite sex without forcing anything.

Whether you're married, partnered, or questioning what intimacy could feel like again, this episode offers a grounded, practical path back to connection.

Stop managing the relationship. Start being in it.

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Performance anxiety is sabotaging your sex life and creating the exact outcomes you fear. If you struggle with staying hard, coming too fast, or avoiding intimacy because you're worried about failing, you'll learn the Tension Release Protocol, how to interrupt the Inner Critic loop in 3 seconds, and why removing expectations dissolves anxiety faster than fighting it.

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CHAPTERS

00:00 Understanding Performance Anxiety

00:57 Introduction to The Naked Connection

01:08 The Tension Release Protocol

04:33 Step 1: The Three Second Reentry

08:02 Step 2: Zero Expectation Touch

12:22 Step 3: Partner Focused Reframe

17:31 Recap and Final Thoughts

Predictable sex is killing the excitement in your relationship and you don't even realize it.

Whether you've never tried roleplay or think it's too cringe, this episode gives you practical scenarios, a step-by-step process to prepare and how to enroll your partner into your fantasy. Stop taking sex so seriously and start having fun with it!

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Rushing foreplay is killing her arousal and you don't even realize it. If you want to guarantee her pleasure and deepen intimacy, in this episode you'll learn the 3-Stage Intentional Foreplay Blueprint, how to ground her nervous system before building arousal, and why mapping her body with curiosity creates better orgasms than any technique.

Whether you're struggling to make her orgasm or just want to level up your skills, this episode shows you exactly how to turn foreplay from a chore into the most powerful part of sex. Stop performing and start connecting.

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If you are a man struggling with focus, intimacy issues, or feeling empty after quick hits of pleasure, in this episode, you'll learn how porn addiction rewires your brain, how to spot the subtle signs porn might be affecting your relationships, and why community is essential for breaking free. Learn how neural pathways become deeply grooved habits and what actually lives on the other side of recovery.

Whether you are battling compulsive behaviors alone or ready to build deeper connection with your partner, this episode has insight for you. The isolation stops when you understand what's actually happening in your brain.

Connect with Jeremy Lipkowtiz

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If you are struggling with inconsistent results in the bedroom, in this episode, you will learn different types of female orgasm, how to create emotional intimacy during sex. Tune in to learn the three distinct orgasmic experiences women can have and how emotional connection unlocks each type.

Whether you are single and learning or in a long-term relationship wanting deeper intimacy, this episode will transform how you approach female pleasure. Stop focusing on technique and start mastering connection.

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What you take for granted right now is probably what you'll miss most when it's gone.

If you are a man who wants deeper intimacy and presence in your relationships, tune in to learn how taking things for granted destroys connection, how to practice gratitude that actually shifts your sex life. Learn why presence is the foundation of sexual mastery and how 30 seconds of appreciation changes everything in bed.

Whether you are single and feeling like you're missing out or in a relationship that's lost its spark, this episode has insight for you. Your capacity for pleasure, your partner's willingness to be vulnerable, even your freedom—these aren't guaranteed. Stop waiting until it's too late to appreciate what's right in front of you.

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The question every man asks himself: "Does my size matter?" is creating a psychological barrier that's destroying your sexual confidence.

If you are struggling with performance anxiety and size insecurity, you will learn how to get over performance anxiety, why size doesn't matter. Learn the Insecurity Gap concept and the three-tool confidence framework that builds unshakeable sexual confidence.

Whether you are single and nervous or in a relationship battling insecurity, this episode will transform your understanding of what actually drives female pleasure. Stop measuring yourself and start mastering connection.

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If you're a driven man who wants real connection but keeps hitting invisible walls in the bedroom, you will learn the four deeply embedded patterns sabotaging your intimacy, how to transform rejection into opportunity, and how to move from transactional sex to true surrender.

Learn why your brain's self-preservation instincts are killing her desire and the exact techniques to co-regulate her nervous system so she can fully open to you.

Whether you're single and building confidence or partnered and craving deeper passion, this episode has game-changing insights. Stop doing everything "right" and start doing what actually works.

Susan Bratton's Resources:

Sexual Soulmate Pact SexualSoulmatePact.com

Small Offers Guide moresexmoreoften.com

Soulmate Embrace soulmateembrace.com

Sex Life Bucket List https://betterlover.com/sex-life-list/

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The conversation you're avoiding about sex is slowly destroying your relationship.

In this episode, you will learn how to talk about sex with your partner, and how to initiate difficult sex talks without defensiveness. Tune in to learn the 3-Part Communication Framework that creates safety and the collaborative approach that strengthens relationships instead of damaging them.

Stop letting silence kill your connection.

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