2HotWives - A Girl's Guide to Unconventional Sex

It's the episode you've all been waiting for.

Threesomes are the most common sex fantasy of all time. 85% of men and 75% of women fantasize about threesomes but only about 18% of us have had them. In this episode the Wives discuss MFM threesomes. Why? Because our goal is to help women maximize their pleasure in the bedroom and MFM is all about two sexy guys intent on making their female play partner feel amazing.

To get in the mood, mix up tonight's cocktail, the Pom Paloma (or...try the spicy habanero infused tequila version...if you dare), while Ams discusses a little afternoon delight with Mr. Kat. Kat, on the other hand, goes reverse "Pretty Woman", taking Mr. Ams on a shopping trip to improve his date wardrobe.

Next the Wives discuss a topic near and dear to their...hearts, the MFM Threesome. Hear about the Round Robin Threesome, where the Wives and their hubbies take turns sitting out a play experience so that everyone gets their chance at a threesome.

While it's hard to beat the Round Robin Threesome, Kat and Ams take it up a notch with their sexy homework: finding a single guy for MFM play.

Then the Wives give Just the Tip(s) on exploring the threesome fantasy, including communication with your partner, tips for single guys about their profiles, and some alternatives if you or your partner aren't quite ready to jump on this bandwagon.

And finally, we talk to Cate from Wanderlust Swingers Podcast about her MFM threesome experiences and advice.

We love our listeners and we want to hear from you! Call the 2HotWives voicemail at 571-310-3829 and share your favorite hot tales and sexy stories. Or ask us questions. We may feature you on the show!

Featured on this episode:

Podcast A Palooza

Wanderlust Swingers Podcast

That Couple Next Door

Learn more about Threesomes:

https://www.masterclass.com/articles/how-to-have-a-threesome

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2020/feb/11/threesomes-men-women-sex-psychology

https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/news/a50969/what-its-really-like-to-have-a-threesome/

https://www.elitedaily.com/p/what-a-threesome-is-like-20-things-to-know-before-you-try-one-8439131

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Women spend hundreds of dollars on potions and pills to feel and look better, when all we really need to do is masturbate and wear sunscreen!

We put the fun in fundamentals with a deep dive into the topic of female masturbation. Masturbation is a way to tap into your desires or get excited for some partnered play. Plus, it is the ultimate in self-care!

First, you will definitely want to mix up our specialty cocktail, the Menage a Moi when listening to this episode's Hot Tales! First, Kat and Mr. Kat are hosting a sexy playdate when an unwanted visitor shows up. Next, Ams reports back on her Impact Play homework with a super-hot night on the spanking bench.

Next, the Wives discuss the benefits of masturbation...everything from improving partnered sex to clearing up your complexion! Ams set a goal of masturbating without using toys and Kat decides to flick-the-bean in public.

Finally, the Wives interview journalist and essayist Haley Swanson about the Six Benefits to Masturbation That Will Convince You to Do it More.

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Featured on this episode:

Podcast A Palooza

Front Porch Swingers

Haley Swanson

The Six Benefits of Masturbation

Wylde in Bed

Wylde Desires

Hitachi Wand

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We interrupt our regularly scheduled program to bring you a very special episode of...the 2HotWives.

Sex can trigger all sorts of physical and emotional responses in the body. Your heart rate might increase, skin might flush, toes might curl...and all of that can be mind-blowingly wonderful. But sometimes sex, especially really intense sex, can bring up negative thoughts and emotions. Sex can even trigger memories of negative past events that can really through you for a loop.

In Episode 11, the Wives set themselves a little homework assignment: set up an Impact Play experience. But when Kat creates a MFM scene and directs the guys to be a little rough, it brought up some strong negative emotions for her. So, the Wives sit down and talk through the issue like best friends do. And Kat shares how a past experience with domestic violence has shaped some of her attitudes toward sex and starts working through the process of exorcising those demons.

We know this isn't the typical upbeat, sexy topic that you expect to hear from the 2HotWives, but, you know what? Sex is complicated and shit happens, so we decided to go with honesty and authenticity over format (sorry Mr. Ams!)

And, trust us, we will be back next episode with more fun, sexy shenanigans!

We used many resources to prepare for this episode, but found the 2010 National Intimate Partner and Sexual Violence Survey to be exceptionally helpful.

Everyone deserves a relationship free of abuse. If you or someone you love is in an abusive relationship, please seek out help. Below is a list of resources:

Domestic Violence Hotline: 800-799-SAFE (7233)

Join the Love (Helping Loved Ones Who May be in Abusive Relationships)

Safe Horizon: 800-621-HOPE (4673)

And, if you are the survivor of an abusive relationship, looking for resources to reclaim your sexuality, check out the following resources.

Reclaiming Your Sexual Self After Trauma

Sexual Healing After Trauma

How to Enjoy Sex Again if You've Experience Sexual Assault

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There is a lot of fear and misconceptions about impact play: mainly, that it's all about pain and humiliation. In reality, impact play isn't one-size fits all. The Wives tackle this issue, top and bottom, discussing some impact play basics and interviewing Kink Expert and professional dominatrix Kimi Inch.

First, does the idea of a little slap and tickle give you the chills? Well, start by mixing up this episode's specialty cocktail, the Salted Caramel Coffee. And because good impact play requires a warm up, the Wives get things started with some extra steamy Hot Tales: Kat finds out that a sexy shower experience with Mr. Ams leads to an idea for a genius invention (Shark Tank, here we come!) and Ams gushes over her special birthday surprise: a six-handed massage, followed up by an MFM threesome.

Next, the Wives discuss some impact play basics: safe words, safe zones and warm up. And, for those of you wondering whether Ams and Kat ever play together, you can hear all about the first time Kat got spanked...by Ams!

Finally, the Wives interview Kink Expert Kimi Inch. Kink expert Kimi Inch (aka Mistress Nina Payne) has been involved in the BDSM lifestyle as a professional Dominatrix since 2002. She was hired by New York's top dungeons to develop training programs for their new employees. This eventually led her to bringing her kink knowledge to the mainstream by holding public workshops as a way to teach and empower curious individuals and couples on how to enhance their sex lives through kink and fantasy exploration.

Alongside her classes, Kimi is trained at the Institute of Core Energetics and holds somatic therapy sessions which are focused around intimacy, relationship help, and sexual healing.

With over 325,000 followers on her social media platforms - Kimi Inch has lectured at Princeton University, The Embodiment Conference, and The One World Tantra Festival. In addition to this, she has been featured in several media outlets like The Wall Street Journal, Cosmo magazine, and New York Post. Plus also has made numerous television appearances, having been featured on ABC's 20/20, ABC's Nightline, and The Oprah Winfrey Network's Our America with Lisa Ling.

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Kimi Inch

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Read any good books lately??? If not, you are missing out! Erotica is a great way to explore your fantasies and get into a sexy-mind set.

You will definitely want to mix up our specialty cocktail, the Rosy Gin Fizz, when listening to this episode's supercharged Hot Tales! First, Kat and Mr. Kat play with a new couple who are excited to test their soft-swap boundaries. Next, Ams shares a very special day in any Swinger-girl's life...her first unicorn experience (...unicorns truly are magical).

Next, the Wives discuss the many pleasures of reading and listening to erotica. Kat goes back to the roots of her sexual journey, where Mr. Kat would read her sexy stories to get into the mood and test the waters on new sexual experiences, including voyeurism, exhibitionism and, of course, swinging. After all, it was through erotica that they found the words to discuss opening up their marriage. Ams discusses how erotica can help women switch gears and embrace a sex-mind set, even when sex might be the furthest thing from our minds.

The Wives also deep dive into an awesome new discovery: Experiential Erotica through the Wylde in Bed Podcast. Imagine the sexy love child of audio erotic fiction and guided meditation. It's a great tool for anyone who needs to turn off their busy brain before they can really get into the mood.

Finally, the Wives interview erotica author Jaimee Bell about her debut book: All the Dirty Little Things.

Whether you are a bad ass swinger or just tapping in to your sexual potential, erotica is a great way to take sexual exploration to a new level.

We love our listeners and we want to hear from you! Call the 2HotWives voicemail at 571-310-3829 and share your favorite hot tales and sexy stories. Or ask us questions. We may feature you on the show! please!

Featured on this episode:

Wylde in Bed

Wylde Desires

Jaimee Bell

All the Dirty Little Things

XConfessions

My Secret Garden

Hitachi Wand

Are you dreaming of a sexy vacation in 2021? Take a tip from the 2HotWives and plan your own Sex Vacation! The Wives turned a cancelled trip to Desire All-Inclusive Resorts into the perfect opportunity to create their own sexy vacation: a relaxing, steamy, six-day sex romp in St. Thomas!

Before you start the episode, don't forget to mix up this episode's specialty cocktail: the Pineapple Hottie. Then listen in while Kat shares a hot tale from Sex Day where she and Mr. Ams get busy in the pool room. Then Ams shares a tale from the last day of their Sex Vacation where she has sweet, cuddly morning sex with Mr. Ams followed by hot shower sex with Mr. Kat, all before her morning cup of coffee.

Next, the Wives discuss how a vacation can take your sex life to a whole new level. When their foursome trip to Desire had to be cancelled due to COVID, the Wives made a spectacular pivot to create their own hot vacation, complete with a luxury villa, private massages and a chartered boat. The result was six solid days of mind-blowing sex.

The holidays are over and we are all dreaming of hot, sexy tropical vacations. If 2020 put a monkey wrench in your vacation plans, now is the perfect time to plan your very own Sex Vacation.

2020 wasn't the year that any of us expected or wanted: we all watched our grand plans for vacations, family gatherings and sex parties get cancelled one by one. But even though large get-togethers and vacations may not be an option right now, that doesn't mean that you can't make connections and have amazing sex. And, let's face it, we need real, authentic connections now more than ever.

The Wives reflect back on their experiences from 2020 and how they focused on building closer, deeper, sexier connections, including with each other.

We love our listeners and we want to hear from you! Call the 2HotWives voicemail at 571-310-3829 and tell us all about your favorite erotica books and movies. Ladies only, please!

Featured on this episode:

Sapphic Swingers

Swingfessions

Trapeze

Bliss Cruises

Luxury Lifestyle Charters

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Are you curious about swinger House Parties? House parties are smallish private gatherings where sexy play time is welcomed, but not mandatory. A House Party may seem like the perfect, "Goldilocks" option between a couple's date and a huge swinger-event, but navigating these smaller group, casual settings can be tricky. In this episode, the Wives discuss their sexy experiences at House Parties and give their Just the Tips so you can show up and show off with confidence.

First, mix up this episode's specialty cocktail, the Naughty Hot Chocolate…the weather outside might be frightful, but with a cup of this holiday cheer, you and your partner will stay nice and warm between the sheets. Then, Kat dishes about her first experience at a sex club, while Ams keeps things sizzling at home with Mr. Ams in the notorious playroom.

Next, Kat checks out the coolest pool party with a sexy cabana playroom. Ams' chimes in with a less than positive experience, where the hosts of a house party aren't great commuting party rules. So, the Wives decide to host their own house party...and the result is the Accidental Orgy. Listen and learn about ways to avoid feeling pressured into play experiences that you aren't down for.

And finally, we have our first listener spotlight! Our new friend Sam shares the key to success with any house party experience.

We love our listeners and we want to hear from you! Call the 2HotWives voicemail at 571-310-3829 and tell us all about your favorite erotica books and movies. Ladies only, please!

Featured on this episode:

Vant Panels

Hitachi Wand

Swingfessions

Sapphic Swingers

Sex Bench

Looking for advice on hosting a house party? Check out: https://swingershelp.com/hosting-swinger-parties/

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The 2HotWives take sexy dress up to a whole new level with some good old-fashioned role play! If you want to mix things up with your partner and explore some of your craziest sexual fantasies in a low-risk, low-stakes way, there is nothing better than setting up a role play.

First, mix up this episode's specialty cocktail, the Pumpkin Pie Smash…it's so good, the wives got a wee bit tipsy during their recording, so be warned! Then, Kat takes advantage of an empty house to indulge in a little self-loving (how do you spell Sybian anyway?) and Ams uses "Just the Tips" from Episode 5 for a sexy, seamless playdate with an experienced couple (Hint: thigh-high tights are the MUST-HAVE accessory for any fall play date).

Next, the wives report back on the results of their racy homework assignment: role play! Ams gets caught red handed with contraband at the airport and Kat is a naughty, naughty nurse. Is there such a thing as too much preparation? Do you need the perfect costume to have the perfect experience? Tune in to find out!

Finally, we hear from our sexy listeners! Our new friend Maria shares her experience with a hot gentleman stranger…blindfolds and torturing little touches and kisses? Don't mind if we do!

We love our listeners and we want to hear from you! Call the 2HotWives voicemail at 571-310-3829 and tell us all about your sexy vacation experience. Ladies only, please!

Featured on this episode:

Sybian

Swinging Down Under

Looking for sexy role play ideas? Check out these additional resources:

https://bestlifeonline.com/role-play-ideas/

https://www.cosmopolitan.com/uk/love-sex/sex/a12013129/role-play-ideas/

https://www.yourtango.com/2014207426/sex-love-valentines-day-30-role-playing-ideas-couples

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Do you want to have better sex? Keep it playful, and a fantastic way to keep sex playful is by improving your "dress up" game. Whether you want to spice things up with your partner, look amazing (and be comfortable!) on a double date, or slay at a sexy lifestyle event, the 2 Hot Wives share tips and tricks on how to dress sexy and confidently.

First, mix up this episode's specialty cocktail, the Poison Apple (perfect for Fall!). Then things get steamy when Ams newbie whispers and Kat has steamy fun in the hot tub!

Next, the 2HotWives dive into the details of dress-up. Kats shares advice on dressing sexy and confident every day and dishes on her favorite date night outfits. The Wives discuss last year's off-the-hook sex-positive Halloween party (hint: you can never show too much ass!) and then Ams dares Kat to set up a sexy role play experience: naughty school girl? Dominatrix? One night stand? We are all dying to find out!

Finally, the Wives chat with their friend, Noelle who plays a sexy dress up game with her husband.

We love our listeners and we want to hear from you! Call the 2HotWives voicemail at 571-310-3829 and tell us all about your sexy role play experience. Ladies only, please!

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Game of Lifestyle

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