Modern Wisdom

Podcast Notes Key Takeaways

• Attachment is the belief that someone cares for you and is the key to a healthy relationship
• People with attachment issues have the fundamental belief that they are not worthy of love, that there’s something wrong with them
• The male sex drive works by external stimulation
• The female sex drive is built on emotional intimacy
• Men are active creatures and often don’t act until action (divorce) is initiated: “there’s a problem I need to solve it”
• Women are reactive creatures – they react to their environment
• Children learn about cause and effect – A bad father, for example, teaches a child that 50% of people are going to treat them badly
• Men need a purpose, something they can control, to avoid depression
• Female depression comes from not feeling loved or feeling useless to the people they love

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Adam Lane Smith is a psychotherapist an author.

Humans are not transparent to ourselves. We are complex creatures who operate on ancient programming. Having spent years and years as a practicing psychotherapist for men, women and couples, Adam has come to learn some insights about us which he put into an epic Twitter thread and that's what we go through today.

Expect to learn why women are disgusted when they learn how the male sex drive works, why having an asshole for a child is your fault, why performative sex stops a woman from orgasming, why depressed men probably don't need medication, the truth about overcoming sexual trauma, how your brain stops you from having sex with your sister and much more...

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