Diary of a Midlife Woman

32. The Empowered Woman’s Toolbox


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As women, we can do hard things, and we are stronger than we know. But at some point every woman needs a few tools in her toolbox when it comes to managing the challenges life throws our way. As a highly sensitive woman, these tools have helped me to adapt and overcome every challenging situation that has come my way. Something doesn’t go my way, I have an argument with my man, my energy levels are challenged, I’m having hot flashes…whatever it is, I have leaned on these tools time and time again to get me through and to help me live my beautiful life. Have a stressful day? Instead of reaching for a glass of wine, try meditating, taking a walk in nature or calling a friend…. Angry at your spouse? Instead of fuming and acting in destructive ways, try Elegant Acceptance, EFT (tapping), breathwork or putting on some kick-ass music and moving your body to work through it! Feeling overwhelmed and anxious? Meditation, yoga, calming music, and breathwork can help. These are the tools that have kept me grounded, feeling connected to myself, and fuel me to live my best each day. Over the years I’ve added to this list and, after talking with so many women and sharing many of these, I wanted to share them with you in hopes they can help to empower you to get through any situation that may come up. ** Please consult your doctor before taking any vitamins, supplements or adaptogens. 1/ Connection to God/Spirit/Source This is your foundation and the key to living a purpose-filled life. Connect to God through:  Prayer  Meditation  Mindfulness 2/ Physical Movement Moving your body helps to ground you, keep you connected to yourself and keep you lithe and agile. Plus, it reduces stress, increases your feel-good vibes and keeps your stamina high. Find something you love and do it everyday!  Walking  Yoga  Spin class  Treadmill  Dance  Weights  HIIT  Swimming 3/ Nutrition Eat to fuel your body, mind and spirit

 Fresh vegetables  Lean protein  Whole Grains  Limit Sugar + Alcohol  Fresh juices + Smoothies  Cooking, meal prep 4/ Journaling Journaling keeps your memory sharp, boosts your mood and helps you to manage your emotions  Daily gratitude practice  Journal daily  Journal to process, to flesh out ideas, to dream 5/ Energy Work We all get out of alignment at times and taking time out to have your chakras balanced can go a long way to leading a productive and happy life.  Reiki  EFT (tapping)  Healing Touch 6/ Body Work Reduce stress, create balance Massage, PT, facial, craniosacral, Acupuncture 7/ Morning Routine Whether yours takes 10 minutes or an hour doesn’t matter, what matters is that you start your day off in the way that works for you to set your day up for success.  Meditation  Breathing  Prayer  Journaling  Stretching  Affirmations  Visualization 8/ Music Music is a powerful force that can motivate you, help you bust out of a funk and put some fun into an otherwise boring day. Play music whenever you need a lift, when you need to focus or when you want to relax. 9/ Support System Surround yourself with friends, family and mentors who pump you up, soothe you and help you get back up when you’re feeling flat.

10/ Media Indulge yourself in books, podcasts, shows and movies that nourish your mind and feed your soul. Find things that inspire you to be a better version of yourself. 11/ Elegant Acceptance Helps you go from victim to victor. 12/ Supplements** These help you boost your energy, overcome stress and maintain health naturally. Always seek professional guidance before taking anything.  Vitamins  Minerals  Adaptogens  Botanical Medicinals 13/ Power Clothes Having pieces that help you feel like a badass can boost your confidence and feel more like yourself when you need an extra edge.  Power Jacket  Jeans that feel like a second skin  Jewelry that helps you feel supercharged  Shoes/boots Be sure to share this with a friend! And don’t forget to leave a review. Merci.�� I want to personally invite you to join me for my Fr*ee MasterClass ‘How to Find Your Fabulous Fall Colors’ on Thursday, October 7 th at 8pm ET. Sign up here: https://sfschoolofstyle.com/fall-color-webinar-sign-up1632492051624 Follow my own personal style journey on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/stylebymarymichele Shop our boutique https://www.instagram.com/shopstylefinder/ For more style inspiration and support, come join us over in the SF School of Style (https://sfschoolofstyle.com/join49186980) and let’s take your style to new heights! You’ll be the first to hear when the doors open. Want personal assistance? Work with me! Grab a spot on my calendar and let’s chat! https://calendly.com/marymichelenidiffer

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