One of the most important things we can do when we want to grow personally is to learn to be honest with ourselves.  And when we rely upon the phrase, 'I don't know' when things come up for us, we are being dodgy.  We are not being honest with ourselves because, we really do know.  Sometimes it's just painful and a lot of work to look deep within ourselves to see what we need to see.  And this resistance to self-awareness keeps us stuck.  Let's explore why and how this works and how to move into the deeper work of figuring it out.