Power Your Parenting: Moms With Teens

# 360 Talking to Teens About Relationships


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How do we talk to our teens about friendships, dating, sex, and consent—without panicking, preaching, or pushing them away?

In this powerful episode, I sit down with Dr. Bronwen Carroll, pediatric emergency medicine physician, mom of four, and child protection advocate. With over 20 years of frontline experience, she shares what she’s seen, what works, and how parents can build “conversational scaffolding” early—so hard conversations feel natural later.

We talk about:

  • Why healthy romantic relationships are built on early childhood friendships

  • How to help teens recognize red flags in dating relationships

  • The emotional and physical risks of teen dating violence

  • Why welcoming your teen’s boyfriend or girlfriend may be smarter than banning them

  • How to talk about consent in clear, practical ways

  • Why honest conversations about sex don’t encourage early sexual activity (and what research from the Netherlands shows)

  • How alcohol, vulnerability, and online spaces increase risk

  • And most importantly—how to stay calm and connected when your teen is emotionally flooded

    Dr. Carroll reminds us that no topic should be off-limits—and that starting the conversation today can make all the difference.

    💡 Key Takeaways

    1. Start Early with “Conversational Scaffolding.”

      The more we normalize discussions about friendship, feelings, and safety when kids are young, the easier it is to talk about dating and sexuality later.

    2. Focus on How Relationships Make Them Feel.

      Teach teens to ask:

      • Do I feel supported?

      • Do I feel relaxed and accepted?

      • Or do I feel anxious, insecure, and like I’m walking on eggshells?

      • Stay Calm and Stay Curious.

        Panic creates power struggles. Curiosity keeps communication open.

        Learn more at: https://www.bronwencarrollmd.com/

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