Optimal Living Daily - Personal Development and Self-Improvement

3793: You Don’t Have to Adjust Who You Are to Please Others by Charlotte Hosier with Tiny Buddha


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Episode 3793:

Charlotte Hosier shares a powerful journey from chronic people-pleasing to authentic living, revealing how suppressing your needs for approval leads to burnout and self-alienation. By uncovering the root beliefs driving this behavior and replacing them with self-awareness and small acts of honesty, you can begin living a life that feels more true and empowering.

Read along with the original article(s) here: https://tinybuddha.com/blog/you-dont-have-to-adjust-who-you-are-to-please-others/

Quotes to ponder:

"Yes, you may feel guilty for being honest at first, but it will get easier."

"You feel in control. You feel comfortable. But until you start to examine the root of your behavior, it’s likely that you’ll continue to constantly want to please others."

"Adjust less to others. Listen more to yourself."

Episode references:

The Work by Byron Katie: https://thework.com

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