This Isn't Me

#40- New Patterns in Love & Relating: Make Your Own Dating Rules


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Who else agrees it's time for NEW patterns in love and relating?

What if you made your OWN rules, or f%cked them off altogether? That sounds like freedom, doesn't it?

A fun episode with my special guest Karina Whelan! Karina interviews me, as we discuss our no rules, no "too much", no "too soon" version of dating, love and relationships!

That's right, being too much, too soon and f%cking off the rules!

Choosing the perspective that "I would rather be rejected for what I am, than loved for what I am not"! Because we can all see that if you have to do anything to be in the relationship, that makes you compromise who you are, at your deepest core values, that’s not the relationship for you! And seeing that is powerful, don't you think?

I share the distant past and path I took to learn what not to do (for me any-who), including open relationships and polyamory! In a backwards way, they allowed me to find access to the new level of love and version of relating I'm entering into now.

We talk: standards, boundaries, pre-sexual-intimacy conversations and agreements and how I believe we can create more possibilities of drawing in and maintaining the relationships we desire.

I also speak to the relationship journey I'm on NOW, with the incredible man I'm creating a picture of future possibilities with #mysteryman. Including how we have agreed to make our own rules, be seen and loved as we are now, growing and evolving, together. Building on the solid foundation of the well researched pillars for fulfilling love: safety, trust and commitment.

What if you allowed yourself to explore and experiment with how you show up in relationships and all of the potential to be created there? What might be possible if you experimented and explored?

Time to make your own rules in life and love? Want a guide?

Enquire directly with Veronica about coaching ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or check out the current offers on ⁠⁠⁠⁠her ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. And make sure you follow Veronica Jayne on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@veronicajayne_⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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~ In love and learning, Veronica Jayne x

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