Chief Change Officer

#408 Jodi Silverman: When the Kids Grow Up, But You’re Just Getting Started — Part Two


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Jodi Silverman never expected reinvention to arrive between carpools and client meetings. But once her kids left and the hustle paused, she realized success had masked something deeper: restlessness. 

In Part 2, Jodi shares the emotional (and practical) shift from parenting full-time to rediscovering your own interests. She walks us through her signature DARE Method and dishes out real talk on marriage, identity, and why your kids aren’t your best friends (even if you really, really like them).

This isn’t just an episode about empty nests. It’s about refilling your own life—on your own terms.

Key Highlights of Our Interview:

“You’re always their mom—but not always their problem-solver.”

Letting go means shifting from fixer to coach, giving your adult kids space—and yourself permission to grow.

Best Friend? Nope. Mom Forever.

“They have friends. What they need is a parent who actually knows when to walk away.”

Jodi explains why clinging to closeness can backfire—and how healthy detachment brings deeper connection.

The Real Empty Nest Challenges

“It’s not just missing them. It’s not knowing who you are without them.”

It’s not about quiet halls—it’s about a loud identity crisis. Jodi breaks down the emotional vacuum no one warns you about.

The DARE Method

“Decide. Awaken. Reimagine. Experience.”

Jodi’s four-step formula to reclaim your identity—starting with a brain dump, not a five-year plan.

Rediscovering You

“What did you used to like—before you were someone’s plus one?”

She urges listeners to list lost joys, try without judgment, and welcome failure as a doorway to rediscovery.

Day Swaps, Not Date Nights

“Plan a day around what lights them up. You’ll learn more than any heart-to-heart.”

From partners to adult children, this method rebuilds connection through shared experiences and mutual curiosity.

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