You Love & You Learn Podcast

#43 - 7 Ways to Reduce Perfectionism In Our Relationships

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Welcome back for part 2 of this 2-part series on perfectionism in our relationships. Be sure to check out episode #42 before diving into this one!

In this episode I share 7 ways to reduce perfectionism in our relationships. 

Sneak peek:

  1. Notice when perfectionism shows up in your relationship and life and what the effects are
  2. Come up with a meaningful “why” to grow or change
  3. Practice self-compassion and compassion for others
  4. Cultivate new, helpful beliefs that poke holes in perfectionism 
  5. Stop comparison to other people’s “perfect moments” on social media
  6. Focus on what is good enough, what is working, and what you appreciate
  7. Brush moments of perfectionism off and move forward 

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    Additional resources:

    • Join Deconstruct the Doubts digital course here (instant + lifetime access)
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