August 08, 2023

534 | What We Tell Married Couples (NLL)

23 minutes

Use the timestamps below to guide you better as a leader or individual:

Introduction to today’s show. 0:00
- Top three things that Chris tells married couples.
- Top advice and counsel for couples.
Couples tend to wrestle with similar problems. 0:57
- Couples tend to wrestle with similar problems in situations.
- The three top common things discussed today.
How much do you know about your spouse? 2:48
- You have to keep learning about your spouse.
- Plan on learning for the rest of your marriage.
Communication is a big struggle. 4:42
- Communication is a big struggle in a relationship.
- Ask questions instead of assuming.
- The fear of sounding stupid in front of his wife.
- Writing down his wife's desires.
Get to know your spouse better. 8:47
- Spend time learning and getting to know your spouse.
- Kill as much selfishness as possible.
Kill it all at all costs. 10:37
- Kill it at all costs, chris.
- Get out of the victim mentality.
The more victim mentality, the more you will find yourself. 12:14
- The more victim mentality, the more selfishness and self-centeredness.
- Focus on others, not you.
- Taking time with his wife and family.
- Taking time to relax and enjoy each other.
The importance of self care. 16:01
- Self-care is good, but it's not the only thing.
- The third thing.
What Is love? Scripturally? 17:40
- The couple who learn to put god first.
- Love scripturally is selfless sacrifice.
How to gain sacrificial love toward god. 19:11
- Learn how to serve each other incredibly well.
- Focus on relationship with god.
- Couples can't afford to ignore these important instructions.
- Learn each other's personality styles first.

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August 08, 2023

534 | What We Tell Married Couples (NLL)

23 minutes

Use the timestamps below to guide you better as a leader or individual:

Introduction to today’s show. 0:00
- Top three things that Chris tells married couples.
- Top advice and counsel for couples.
Couples tend to wrestle with similar problems. 0:57
- Couples tend to wrestle with similar problems in situations.
- The three top common things discussed today.
How much do you know about your spouse? 2:48
- You have to keep learning about your spouse.
- Plan on learning for the rest of your marriage.
Communication is a big struggle. 4:42
- Communication is a big struggle in a relationship.
- Ask questions instead of assuming.
- The fear of sounding stupid in front of his wife.
- Writing down his wife's desires.
Get to know your spouse better. 8:47
- Spend time learning and getting to know your spouse.
- Kill as much selfishness as possible.
Kill it all at all costs. 10:37
- Kill it at all costs, chris.
- Get out of the victim mentality.
The more victim mentality, the more you will find yourself. 12:14
- The more victim mentality, the more selfishness and self-centeredness.
- Focus on others, not you.
- Taking time with his wife and family.
- Taking time to relax and enjoy each other.
The importance of self care. 16:01
- Self-care is good, but it's not the only thing.
- The third thing.
What Is love? Scripturally? 17:40
- The couple who learn to put god first.
- Love scripturally is selfless sacrifice.
How to gain sacrificial love toward god. 19:11
- Learn how to serve each other incredibly well.
- Focus on relationship with god.
- Couples can't afford to ignore these important instructions.
- Learn each other's personality styles first.