The Active Life Podcast

6 Questions Coaches Can Ask to Book More Consultations Today


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In this episode of The Active Life Podcast, hosts Larry Gaier and Cody Ringle dive into the art of conversation. Whether it's personal or professional, they discuss why starting conversations can be intimidating and offer actionable strategies to help listeners improve their communication skills. From breaking the ice to asking meaningful questions, Larry and Cody emphasize that becoming a better conversationalist can enhance relationships, grow your business, and improve your overall quality of life.

Key Takeaways:

  • Why conversations are difficult: Larry and Cody explore the root causes of social anxiety and the fear of rejection, tracing it back to evolutionary psychology. They explain how our survival instincts make us cautious in social situations, even though the stakes are much lower today.
  • The importance of curiosity: A genuine curiosity about others is the key to opening up effective, engaging conversations. Asking thoughtful questions can help make the other person feel important and valued.
  • A framework for conversation: The hosts introduce a six-question framework to guide conversations:
  • Facing social anxiety: The discussion highlights how many people avoid conversations due to past negative experiences or fear of rejection. By shifting perspectives and practicing low-risk conversations, individuals can build their confidence and improve their social skills.
  • Actionable Advice:

    • Start conversations with simple, non-threatening questions, like commenting on something observable (e.g., “Is that your go-to drink?”).
    • Frame conversations with curiosity rather than focusing on a specific outcome. This reduces the fear of rejection and opens up more authentic connections.
    • Use the six-question framework to guide your conversations and keep them flowing naturally.
    • If you enjoyed this episode, please rate us 5 stars on your podcast platform of choice—it really helps! If you’re a fitness professional looking to take your coaching career to the next level, download our curriculum from the show notes to learn how we can help you succeed with Active Life.


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