I don't like how men with mics claim that the reason for their bad behavior and mistreatment of women is because of the woman not requiring more from them. It's like only women are supposed to hold themselves accountable and the men are just supposed to keep being shitty until every woman in the world decides to stop "enabling" them.

but I digress because my fight isn't to make them hear me--im not in the business of trying to heal a man and make him change.

This is for my ladies. I want y'all to know that there are men that you don't have to do all that with. There are men that are good men for them damn selves, first, and have enough integrity to show up and show out for a woman he wants and values.

You can't make a man treat you right, respect you, value you or love you. He either will or he won't and it's on him if he doesn't, not you!

end rant.