Episode Summary:
In this episode of Turns Out I’m Into It, Harley Rabbit dives deep into the fascinating world of sexual fantasies, exploring why so many of us feel shame about them and how science challenges the idea of “normal” fantasies. Harley breaks down a landmark study, “What Exactly Is an Unusual Sexual Fantasy?”, which surveyed over 1,500 people to determine which fantasies are rare, unusual, common, or typical. Along the way, Harley shares personal insights, busts myths about fantasies, and offers practical tips for embracing your desires without shame.

Discussion & Journal Prompts:

1. What are some sexual fantasies I’ve had that I’ve felt shame about, and where does that shame come from?
2. How do I feel about sharing my fantasies with a partner? What fears or hesitations come up?

Links & Resources Mentioned:

• Full Study: “What Exactly Is an Unusual Sexual Fantasy?”
• Harley’s blog post summarizing the study and insights.
• Sci-Hub.se for accessing research articles.

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