This Isn't Me

#77- The Guy Wasn't Her Guy: How to Heal From Breakups and Heart Breaks


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Elly and Veronica are back with another raw, heartfelt episode that digs deep into the delicate terrain of heartbreak and healing.

Right from the start, they bring their signature humour, even as Elly bravely shares the bittersweet news that “The Guy” just wasn’t the guy. It’s a tough realisation, one that brings up tears, reflections, and a lot of insight. Veronica is right there by her side, offering loving support and reminding us that everything is a teacher and every connection is feedback, taking us one step closer to what we actually desire.

Elly opens up about the internal struggle of knowing deep down that things with “The Guy” would have been an uphill battle. She speaks to the compassion she feels for him, as he navigates his own challenges and reflects on the growing sense of limbo that emerged, leaving her feeling disconnected and unfulfilled. This isn’t the first time she’s felt this – and the déjà vu of it all has her thinking about past situationships and how far she’s come.

Veronica and Elly unpack the subtleties of how we, as women, sometimes fall into overly nurturing or “mothering” roles, wondering if it ends up pushing men away. Veronica reminds Elly that she wasn’t “too much” – she was just so ready. Ready to let someone in, ready for real connection. They also explore the sometimes addictive nature of suffering and the question of whether letting go has to be so hard?

With honesty and a dose of laughter, they share their personal experiences with heartbreak, anger, and how it can be channelled into a force for growth. Veronica speaks passionately about using anger to fuel her mission, while Elly reflects on how her self-love practices have helped her move forward without lingering too long in pain.

The gals also shed light on how men often lack safe spaces to express their emotions, reflecting on the heavy mental load many carry. Veronica opens up about her relationship with Will, sharing how there was never a doubt that he wanted her – a stark reminder that when someone truly wants you, it’s clear.

In this powerful episode, Elly and Veronica leave you with a reminder: heartbreak, as painful as it can be, is just another step on the journey to finding yourself – and the right partner. They share tips on how to honour your emotions, stay grounded, and lean into the process without getting stuck. From asking yourself “What do I need right now?” to leaning on support systems, they offer tools to navigate the complex path of healing.

So if you’re healing from a breakup or just looking for some real, soulful talk, this one’s for you. Tune in and be reminded that every connection, every tear, and every lesson brings you closer to the love and life you truly deserve.

If you're going through a heart break yourself, or a transition of any kind, please know you can enquire directly with Veronica about coaching ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or check out the current offers on ⁠⁠⁠⁠her ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. And make sure you follow Veronica Jayne on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@veronicajayne_⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ !

You can also watch episodes of This Isn't Me podcast and the Reclaiming Love series on YouTube ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@veronicajayne⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

~ In love and learning, Veronica Jayne x

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