📞 <a href='https://calendar.app.google/jsA9C3UpkJVSyZoS8'>Book a 1:1 call! Schedule here</a>
You cut off the relationship. You’re doing “the right things.” But the ache? It’s still there.
Why do I still miss him? Will this longing ever go away?
Yes, the ache is real. But it’s not about him—it’s about what you’re truly wired for: emotional intimacy, safety, and being seen.
This episode is your gentle guide to reclaiming that connection… without outsourcing your worth.
💡 Here we explore:
<ul>
<li>Why missing him doesn’t mean you messed up</li>
<li>What connection really is (and what it isn’t)</li>
<li>How to stop outsourcing your need for attention and affection</li>
<li>The difference between emotional intimacy and codependent intensity</li>
<li>How to start tending to the “home within” and find peace with God and yourself</li>
</ul>
Let’s Connect:
💌 <a href='https://calendar.app.google/fojMCGaprxcbFbjK9'>Book a 1:1 Coaching Call with Kristina</a>
📖 <a href='https://buy.stripe.com/eVqfZg6iPgXA4YrfIx1ck06'>Experience the Coming Home to Freedom course + 4 coaching calls and messaging</a>
💙 <a href='https://buy.stripe.com/eVq14mfTp5eS9eH53T1ck00'>7-part devotional experience</a>
📸 Send me a message on Instagram with the word CALL for more support: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/kristinajoycoaching'>@kristinajoycoaching</a>

📞 Book a 1:1 call! Schedule here You cut off the relationship. You’re doing “the right things.” But the ache? It’s still there. Why do I still miss him? Will this longing ever go away? Yes, the ache is real. But it’s not about him—it’s about what you’re truly wired for: emotional intimacy, safety, and being seen. This episode is your gentle guide to reclaiming that connection… without outsourcing your worth. 💡 Here we explore: Why missing him doesn’t mean you messed up What connection really is (and what it isn’t) How to stop outsourcing your need for attention and affection The difference between emotional intimacy and codependent intensity How to start tending to the “home within” and find peace with God and yourself Let’s Connect: 💌 Book a 1:1 Coaching Call with Kristina 📖 Experience the Coming Home to Freedom course + 4 coaching calls and messaging 💙 7-part devotional experience 📸 Send me a message on Instagram with the word CALL for more support: @kristinajoycoaching

&nbsp;📞 <a href="https://calendar.app.google/jsA9C3UpkJVSyZoS8" rel="noopener noreferrer">Book a 1:1 call! Schedule here</a>
You cut off the relationship. You’re doing “the right things.” But the ache? It’s still there.
Why do I still miss him? Will this longing ever go away?
Yes, the ache is real. But it’s not about him—it’s about what you’re truly wired for: emotional intimacy, safety, and being seen.
This episode is your gentle guide to reclaiming that connection… without outsourcing your worth.
💡 Here we explore:
<ul>
<li>Why missing him doesn’t mean you messed up</li>
<li>What connection really is (and what it isn’t)</li>
<li>How to stop outsourcing your need for attention and affection</li>
<li>The difference between emotional intimacy and codependent intensity</li>
<li>How to start tending to the “home within” and find peace with God and yourself</li>
</ul>
Let’s Connect:
💌 <a href="https://calendar.app.google/fojMCGaprxcbFbjK9" rel="noopener noreferrer">Book a 1:1 Coaching Call with Kristina</a>
📖 <a href="https://buy.stripe.com/eVqfZg6iPgXA4YrfIx1ck06" rel="noopener noreferrer">Experience the Coming Home to Freedom course + 4 coaching calls and messaging</a>
💙 <a href="https://buy.stripe.com/eVq14mfTp5eS9eH53T1ck00" rel="noopener noreferrer">7-part devotional experience</a>
📸 Send me a message on Instagram with the word CALL for more support: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/kristinajoycoaching" rel="noopener noreferrer">@kristinajoycoaching</a>

78 | Still Missing Your Affair Partner? How To Rebuild Real Connection After Your Affair

The Go-to Podcast for Christian Women Who Want to Heal Their Heart to Shed Their Shame!

*RANKED TOP 2.5% GLOBALLY*

Do you wish someone would stop and see you, instead of looking through you or past you? Are you Googling ways to communicate and connect with your husband, but you’re still not feeling heard? Do you lay awake at night wondering if your marriage can survive infidelity or what’s the first step to file for divorce? Your vows are broken, and you’re so full of shame that you’re sure there’s no way God or your husband could possibly forgive you.

I am so grateful you’re here! This podcast will help you find hope, get a grasp on your emotions at a deeper level, and learn how to get raw and honest with God like your life depends on it- because it does. You’ll also get coaching for the steps along the journey of restoration, communication, and trust.

Hey, I’m Kristina Joy. Forgiven daughter of Jesus, Mom, and Coach. For years, I tried to break free from my infidelity in all the wrong ways. I tried by sheer willpower, I tried reading my Bible more, and I even considered joining a 12-step program. None of it worked.

I finally realized that if I was going to find true freedom in my life, I needed to let Jesus heal some deep wounds in my heart. Through prayer, a whole lot of research, and developing new healthy habits, I was finally able to find healing to shed my shame once and for all. I learned I could choose to leave the affair behind. I could choose to pursue my own emotional healing and growth, no matter if my marriage survived or not. I could create new healthy habits that would move me forward in confidence, with strength and dignity. And I am SO ready to share what I’ve learned with you!

If you are ready to finally find your true self in Christ,
Experience ultimate freedom from your bondage,
Feel authentic connection without the secrets,
And move forward with strength and dignity,

Then find your safe space and pop in those earbuds. I’m about to show you that intimacy after infidelity is possible, and life can be way better than it ever was before. Get ready- let’s rebuild your intimacy better than it’s ever been!

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The Go-to Podcast for Christian Women Who Want to Heal Their Heart to Shed Their Shame! *RANKED TOP 2.5% GLOBALLY* Do you wish someone would stop and see you, instead of looking through you or past you? Are you Googling ways to communicate and connect with your husband, but you’re still not feeling heard? Do you lay awake at night wondering if your marriage can survive infidelity or what’s the first step to file for divorce? Your vows are broken, and you’re so full of shame that you’re sure there’s no way God or your husband could possibly forgive you. I am so grateful you’re here! This podcast will help you find hope, get a grasp on your emotions at a deeper level, and learn how to get raw and honest with God like your life depends on it- because it does. You’ll also get coaching for the steps along the journey of restoration, communication, and trust. Hey, I’m Kristina Joy. Forgiven daughter of Jesus, Mom, and Coach. For years, I tried to break free from my infidelity in all the wrong ways. I tried by sheer willpower, I tried reading my Bible more, and I even considered joining a 12-step program. None of it worked. I finally realized that if I was going to find true freedom in my life, I needed to let Jesus heal some deep wounds in my heart. Through prayer, a whole lot of research, and developing new healthy habits, I was finally able to find healing to shed my shame once and for all. I learned I could choose to leave the affair behind. I could choose to pursue my own emotional healing and growth, no matter if my marriage survived or not. I could create new healthy habits that would move me forward in confidence, with strength and dignity. And I am SO ready to share what I’ve learned with you! If you are ready to finally find your true self in Christ, Experience ultimate freedom from your bondage, Feel authentic connection without the secrets, And move forward with strength and dignity, Then find your safe space and pop in those earbuds. I’m about to show you that intimacy after infidelity is possible, and life can be way better than it ever was before. Get ready- let’s rebuild your intimacy better than it’s ever been!

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