I’ll be honest, I used to think pony play sounded… a little silly. But after discovering Rapidash’s stunning photos and hearing the depth of feeling behind his scenes, I realised there was a whole lot more to this kink I didn’t understand. It's actually incredible! 

In this episode of Turns Out I’m Into It, I’m joined by a very special guest: Desmond—also known in the kink world as Rapidash. Desmond is a passionate pony player who generously opens up about his journey, the beauty of pony play, and what it means to fully embody an alter ego with power, grace, and heart.

We explore:

🔹 What pony play is (and what it isn’t)
 🔹 The difference between cosplay and full pony embodiment
 🔹 Asexual kink and why eroticism isn’t always the goal
 🔹 The psychological state known as “pony headspace”
 🔹 What it feels like to transform into Rapidash
 🔹 Tack, hooves, and creating a beautiful visual aesthetic
 🔹 Types of scenes – from carting and dressage to solo play and bondage
 🔹 Finding community and navigating rare kinks in Australia

Desmond’s description of pony play as a living work of art—and Rapidash as a grander, more majestic version of himself—will stay with me for a long time. Whether you’re totally new to this kink or simply intrigued, this heartfelt, vulnerable conversation is a beautiful window into an often-misunderstood world.

🐴 Follow Rapidash:

• FetLife: -Rapidash-
• Intagram: @-rapidash_1

📚 Book recommendation:
 The Human Pony by Rebecca Wilcox

🔗 Mentions & Resources:

• Cpony.com – A detailed educational site about pony play
• Etsy – For custom hooves and pony gear
• Wild Gas Masks, Bob Basset, Fury Fantasy – Gear creators mentioned
• HorseLand (AU) – Mainstream horse supplies that double as tack
• FetLife Pony Play groups – Great for community, education, and connection

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xx Harley 🐰

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