If you were hoping to hear us get fired up over the definitions of made-up words…your wait is over. This week begins our series on dating definitions and we kick things off with debating why all these definitions even exist. Then, we get into dating words we wish would be used *less* (here’s looking at you, gaslighting). Lovebombing and fboy make the list, too, and Erica has found the perfect AITA reddit thread to add to the debate. We’ll be back next week with even more!

But first, Erica is back in New York (and has a fun story about a listener) and Ali is excited for a new matchmaker date. 

Timestamps: Topic talk begins at 26.

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