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Ever met someone in the kink scene who acts like they invented BDSM? Yeah… those are the kink police. 🙄 In this episode, I’m breaking down elitism, rope snobbery, and why anyone telling you there’s a “right” way to do kink is full of it.

We’ll talk about:

• Why your kinky journey is 100% your own
• The difference between confidence and ego
• How to spot predators who isolate newbies (major red flag alert!)
• And why rolling your eyes at gatekeepers is totally valid

Whether you’re brand new or a seasoned kinkster, this episode is here to remind you: you are the authority on your own kink.

🪢 Want to level up your rope skills? I’m hosting a Kazami-Ryu Shibari intensive in Townsville this October! Only 3 tickets left and early bird pricing ends this Sunday. Grab your spot through this link. Or find the Fetlife event here. 

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xx Harley 🐰

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