Building Better Humans Project

A Hard Lesson - Standards and Values


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Do you struggle with enforcing standards because you're scared of rocking the boat? This raw and honest podcast tackles why we avoid conflict and how to stand tall in your values.

Overview: In this podcast episode, Glenn shares a personal story of receiving toxic, anonymous messages from people he once considered close. He reflects on how this happened because he failed to enforce his standards and allowed the wrong people into his inner circle. Glenn explains why we often avoid enforcing standards and keep the wrong people close - because we fear conflict and crave being liked. But tolerating poor behavior leads to more conflict down the road. He shares practical tips for qualifying your circle, aligning with those who elevate you, and having the courage to let some people go. Even if it leads to offense. Because living aligned to your values is worth it.

00:20 - Glenn shares about receiving nasty anonymous messages from former "insiders".
01:45 - He owns where he failed - he let people into his inner circle who didn't belong. 
03:15 - We keep the wrong people close because we fear conflict and crave being "the good guy".
04:55 - You rise or fall to the standards of your environment. The army showed him this.
06:30 - Enforcing standards isn't unkind, it's respectful. But we slip because we avoid offense.
08:15 - Takeaway 1: Qualify who sits at your table. Do their actions align with your values?
09:30 - Takeaway 2: Results require structure. Build an environment aligned to your goals.
10:45 - Sometimes this means letting people go. Don't just tolerate. Enforce standards.
12:00 - Living by your values is worth offending some people. The right ones will rise up.
12:45 - Use nasty messages as a mirror. A chance to learn and reset your standards.

Don't just talk values, enforce them. Listen now to build the courage to align your inner circle.

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