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You might want to preview this if you tend to listen with your kids, because in this episode, we're discussing how to talk to our kids about sex.
Today, Erika Miley guides us through talking to our kids about sex. We start with talking to younger kids about sex, and the move on to older kids as the episode progresses. Regardless of the age of your child, there should be something in this episode that you find useful.
You can find Erika at www.ErikaMiley.com.
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- You can find Erika at www.ErikaMiley.com.
In Today’s Episode We Discuss:
- Kids can learn about it from you, or from the internet. Your choice.
When to start talking to kids about sexWhere to begin when talking about sex. (Hint: It’s not intercourse.)Typical developmental behaviorHelping kids understand consentYou don’t need to tell the about everything at once.The importance of really listeningTimes to talk to kids about sexual safetyWhy we shouldn’t use cutesy names for genitaliaSex talk with older kidsThe importance of open-ended questionsAsk the question, shut your mouth“Let me give you context.”It’s okay to say, “You don’t want to know.”Working as a parenting teamPorn will come to your kidsAnd it’s performance. Not realityWhere to get better sex infoScarleteen.comEvery question is an opportunityGive the gift of curiosityOur context is not their contextKids talk above their headsDopamine seeking behavior & playing with sexual language Framing sex conversations around family valuesRelationships > Sex