💡 Radical acceptance starts with self-love.

What would change if you stopped fighting your ADHD and began accepting it as part of who you are?

In this Fireside Chat, we sit down with Xai Yang, a licensed social worker, advocate, and late-diagnosed ADHDer, who shares his journey from shame and stigma to building a life rooted in radical acceptance. From growing up in a Hmong American community where mental health carried heavy taboos, to finally receiving a diagnosis in 2018, Sai opens up about the long road toward self-acceptance, healing, and advocacy.

🌲This conversation explores the New Year’s tension between resolutions, routines, and relapse, and how ADHD adults can break cycles of shame by embracing identity, compassion, and community.

✨ Highlights ✨

• Why ADHD “loves structure but hates routine” and what to do about it.
• How cultural stigma and late diagnosis shape ADHD identity.
• The concept of “macro invalidation” and how reframing it with affirmations can shift self-talk.
• Why are identity-based habits (from Atomic Habits) more powerful than quick fixes?
• How radical acceptance and healing can turn ADHD into a tool for connection and advocacy.

This episode is for anyone who’s ever felt shame for their ADHD or wondered what true self-acceptance really looks like.

📺 Watch the full Fireside Chat now on Attention Different YouTube:
 👉 youtube.com/@attentiondifferent

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