After BDSM teacher Andy Buru came into The UNcivilized Nation and dropped this notion for all of us, I’ve been seeing how potent of an idea this is — balancing space holding and selfishness actually is. AND how confronting it is for so many people to lean into the one that’s not their natural way.

In this short solo episode I break down why being able to do both will change your sex life, your income, and your relationships at large.

Enjoy.

Cheers,

Traver

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