Gavin Meenan is a world-class men’s coach in Ireland. But he wasn’t always. At one point, he was a porn-addicted young father, buried in grief and shame.

And it wasn’t until his porn use became public when videos of him in chat rooms made their way around the internet that he was able to shift his life forever.

In his candid and open conversation, Gavin and I discuss the secret addiction so many men suffer with and how you can start to change it. Porn’s not going anywhere, in fact it’s only going to become more personalized and prevalent. 

This is a powerful episode all men should listen to.

Enjoy.

Cheers,

Traver

In this episode Hendrix and I dive into the ways men end up trapped with money, stuck in debt, and otherwise feeling disempowered when it comes to their finances.

We talk about common stories men hold and how to break them — mostly by creating an actual relationship with money they’ve never had before.

We also dig into why so many men who say they want to make millions and millions of dollars are actually terrified of doing so and secretly sabotaging their own wealth.

AND — this is not just a conversation men should listen to, it’s packed with gems for anyone who’s interested in making more money, saving more money, and feeling more free.

Enjoy.

Cheers,

Traver

The connection we create around us will always be the key to building relationships where we can be ourselves without the need to hide any feelings.

In this episode, I had a pleasant conversation with another exceptional man, my friend Mark Groves. Mark will explain what all these connections are about and why it is so important for us, as men, to establish strong relationships with other people.

So, it is time to press play and start knowing how to build these connections, your integrity as men, and feel the freedom to be yourself.

I stumbled upon David’s work just a short time ago and was immediately hooked. After leaving a successful acting career in Hollywood, David did what very few actors do and became a therapist! And a brilliant one at that.

In this episode we talk about following the path of your soul, about the ways men trip themselves up, and the common challenges found int relationship.

This is a powerful episode with a powerful man.

Enjoy.

Cheers,

Traver

This is a big topic and one that often gets overlooked or misunderstood by most men. And, here at UNcivilized we’re interested in supporting you in becoming unlike most men. Radically so.

In this solo episode I give you four concrete ways you can shift your own ways to help everyone around you feel safer, especially any woman in your life.

Enjoy.

Cheers,

Traver

In this lighthearted episode I interview David Bodenhamer about his experience raising two young boys and finding a stark change in them once they started doing burpees during COVID.

Watching them go from restless and inattentive with their schoolwork to focused and disciplined had him take this simple idea all the way up the chain in his local school board.

If you have a son you need to listen to this episode. 

Enjoy.

Cheers,

Traver

Raj Jana is wears many hats. CEO of a tech company, teacher, speaker, podcast host, and seeker. Getting to sit down with him here in Boulder was an incredible experience as we dove into his journey from running a coffee startup to his now leading a team of entrepreneurs creating digital mapping of our emotional lives.

This is a great episode if you're curious about how humans operate, the power of alignment and integrity in business and relationships, and if you just want to listen to someone who is whip smart and funny as hell.

Cheers,

Traver

Bonner Rinn is an extraordinary man and he’s a man with Cerebral Palsy. But honestly that’s not what’s interesting about him. 

What is interesting is what he’s done with his life going from a home where his condition wasn’t able to be spoken about to running a world wide organization brining awareness and resources to kids with disabilities in developing countries.

Along the way he’s had to do his own healing work and has built himself a unique an amazing life as a man.

This is a great episode about what is possible, no matter the cards you’re dealt in your life.

Enjoy.

Cheers,

Traver

If you’re a Nice Guy, or someone who struggles with either finding or fully embodying your purpose — then this episode is for you.

In this edition of the UNcivilized Podcast, I have a man from my Kill The Nice Guy community who shares his pattern of struggling with believing he’s worth doing what he really wants in the world.

Sound familiar?

We talk about why these pattern exists, where they comes from, and how he can make small shifts in his behavior to start giving himself the PERMISSION he needs to charge more, work less, and craft the life of his dreams.

This is a powerful episode and I’m grateful of the openness of my guest.

Enjoy.

Cheers,

Traver

In this episode I sit down with 10 time author Sylvester McNutt. Sly is a good friend and brother who I’ve known for years now. His new book is all about crafting the life you want to live and letting go of all the things that stand in your way.

You’ll get to hear us dive into how he now has to organize his life since becoming a father, what he sees as the biggest roadblocks people have to creating a satisfying life, and how Sly himself has had to grapple with challenges around food and being a provider.

This is a great episode for you creatives, entrepreneurs, and fathers.

Enjoy.

Cheers,

Traver