The UNcivilized Podcast with Traver Boehm

I’ve been waiting YEARS to interview Kristal Desantis as she is a therapist for men. And she’s a woman so her view and understanding of men is unique.

In this episode we explore a number of challenges men have, primarily in relationships, but then take a plunge on the question of whether vulnerability is actually healthy in men’s relationships.

This is a great conversation I know you’ll enjoy.

Enjoy.

Cheers,

Traver

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If you’re a Nice Guy, or someone who has shame around their financial situation, this episode is for you!

In this edition of the UNcivilized Podcast, I have a man from my Kill The Nice Guy community who shares his story of losing his job, right when he and his new girlfriend are just getting together.

This had the potential to throw him down the stairs of shame and he shares with us how he prevented that from happening. This is big.

We talk openly about the shame so many men have with their finances and debt and how you can work with both without falling down a spiral of self loathing or self hatred.

Enjoy.

Cheers,

Traver

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As the nature of relationship rapidly changes and people begin looking for alternate ways of constructing their relational and sexual lives, teachers like Sophie have been continually sought out.

Sophie’s creation of the Cosmic Masculine puts both men and women into a relational frame that’s both devotional and sacred while allowing infinite space for the down to Earth parts of our being as well.

This idea is ahead of its time and will upset many people! Yet those who grasp it will be richly rewarded.

I know you’ll love this one.

Enjoy.

Cheers,

Traver

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On Sunday July 7th at 9:30 in the morning, my father passed. I was there with my Mom, holding his hand as he took his final breaths.

While this is a very private moment to share, there are elements to it that I know will touch you and hopefully inspire you in all of your relationships.

In this solo episode I touch on three of the key parts of this experience, one from the wild lead up to the decision of when to go back home, my nightly vigils with him, a hard choice I had to make the morning of his death

This is recorded and shared with the hope that everyone listening gets the opportunity for both closure and open heartedness with their own parents.

Enjoy.

Cheers,

Traver

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If you are under 30 you need to listen to this episode.

If you know a man under 30, you also need to listen to this!

In this episode we speak about the unique challenges facing young men and how they can shift to healthier more actualized lives.

Blake is also the author of The Unseen Way.

Enjoy.

Cheers,

Traver

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If you’re a Nice Guy, or someone with loose boundaries, this episode is for you.

In this edition of the UNcivilized Podcast, I have a man from my Kill The Nice Guy community who in a tough spot. 

He’s in a relationship that he values but his partner has an unreasonable demand — she wants him to check in with her every hour on the hour.

We get real here with why he’s letting her request keep him stuck, what may be happening on her end with her avoidant behaviors, and how he can navigate showing up with integrity and alignment with her — or leaving a situation that is unsustainable.

Enjoy.

Cheers,

Traver

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Let’s be honest — it’s challenging to be in relationship these days, and that’s because there’s so much conflicting information out there.

Men are supposed to lead! But only at the magical right time…

Men are supposed to be emotionally connected to their women! But don’t show emotion because that’s weakness…

In this episode we bring back one of the Top 5 most listened to episodes of the Uncivilized Podcast just for you.

Enjoy.

Cheers,

Traver

I believe there are three levels or stages of relationship you can engage in:

— Character & Role Playing

— Sacred, Divine, & Uncivilized

Each stage also has sexual level associated with it…

Enjoy.

Cheers,

Traver

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Today I sit down with renowned men’s mental health coach, Elise Michaels for the second time on the pod.

Elise is a force in the men’s world with over a million followers across her many channels. In this episode we speak into a variety of topics from her work with men, how men can help shift out of rock bottom, and of course — the last two years of Elise’s life.

She’s recently ended an abusive relationship with an ex partner and found herself fully immersed in Christianity.

As well as getting to hear how Elise pulled herself out of hell and found herself walking in her spirituality in an entirely new way.

This is a powerful episode and I’m grateful of the openness of my guest.

Enjoy.

Cheers,

Traver

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In this edition of the UNcivilized Podcast, I have a man from my Kill The Nice Guy community who has stepped into a brand new role — he’s the step father of two teenage twin boys.

We talk about how his Nice Guy patterns are holding him back and keeping him from fully engaging with both his woman, and her kids. And we give him some concrete steps on how to be more powerful while also staying out of the dictatorial role and in the relational role.

Enjoy.

Cheers,

Traver