In this episode I speak with renowned author Dr. Douglas Thomas on what makes people tick in the bedroom and beyond it.
After reading Dr. Thomas’s book, The Deep Psychology of BDSM & Kink while in Costa Rica, I reached out to Dr. Thomas to see if he’d come on the podcast with me. He agreed and magic was made. We talk archetypes, the power of our sexuality, and at the end dive into the changes that AI and robotics may have on our bedroom lives.

I loved this conversation and am excited to share it with you.

Cheers,

Traver

In this episode I’ll talk about how and why you need to get past the idea that people who don’t live like you do or even want to, are supposed to understand you.
If there’s one thing that needs to be navigated in order to live a life outside of the box — it’s being misunderstood. This comes from family, friends, and of course, perfect strangers who have internet access to you.

Learning to work through what’s different about you (these are good things) and owning the fact you can’t have uncommon or UNcivilized outcomes while being celebrated by folks trapped in the matrix is a big deal.

And on the other side of it is freedom.

Please do me a favor and share this episode with one person in your life.

Cheers,

Traver

If you’re curious how to build more trust, devotion, and polarity in your relationship, this episode is for you.
Ever wonder what really happens in a relationship dynamic where both parties have agreed to a complete Dom/sub relationship? Ever wonder how that dynamic could help you be a better partner in your own relationship, no matter how it’s put together?
In this candid conversation with Andrew from Infinite Devotion, we get into all the pros, cons, and learning lessons he and his wife Dawn have had on their journey from a burnt out, borderline cliche married couple, to one thriving in a new dynamic.

Please do me a favor and share this episode with one person in your life.

Cheers,

Traver

Every time I have a client say their stuck because they’re afraid of either failure or success I roll my eyes and say — OH LORD. No you’re not. You’re afraid of the unknown. The deep unknown. The things you can’t even conceptualize right now.

And — you need to start anyway. Anyone and everyone you know who’s done something outside of their comfort zone has had the exact same stuck feeling. 

Stick around to the end of this already short episode where I give you three ways to get unstuck immediately.

Please do me a favor and share this episode with one person in your life.

Cheers,

Traver

Now more than ever, people are craving a deeper experience of their lives. I bet you can relate.
In this episode I speak with Boulder Outdoor Survival School graduate, Men’s Work Facilitator, and BJJ enthusiast Evan Meyer on his own path towards living a soul based life, the pain and turmoil he’s had to go through to get where he’s at, and of course, his favorite Jiujitsu submission.

If you’re curious about not only how to navigate big transitions in your life but also what depth they may reveal, this episode is for you.
Please also share this with one person in your life, or twenty. 

Cheers,

Traver

Myth. Sex. Pleasure. Oh my.

In this conversation with author and Depth Psychologist Dr. Alanna Kaivalya we jam on several aspects of relationship and female pleasure. And this podcast isn’t just for our female listeners, guys you will glean much from this episode as well.

Dr. Kaivalya has a unique lens on the relationship world as both a psychologist and someone who has a deep understanding of myth, masculine and feminine dynamics, and sexuality.

This interview was a ton of fun to do and I know you’ll enjoy it.
Please also share this with one person in your life, or twenty. 

Cheers,

Traver

Today I bring you another Irishman and a fascinating one at that. Pat is a good friend of the Uncivilized world and has been leading a life worthy of the title of Uncivilized since before we were born.

In this episode we follow Pat’s career going from fitness success and lack of satisfaction into the world of Breathwork and how that has radically changed his life. Pat’s openness about the truth of business and entrepreneurship as well as his deep understanding of the body’s use of breath makes this episode on you don’t want to miss.

Pat also does Brazilian Jiujitsu which means he’s awesome. Fact.
Please also share this with one person in your life, or twenty. 

Cheers,

Traver

Considering the fact that it’s reason the species perpetuates, the difference between friendships and romantic relationships, as well as a MASSIVE source of both life’s pleasures and pain — it’s shocking that we don’t have more open and honest conversations about sex.

In this episode I get to ask Dr. Kelly all the questions you men ask me, covering such topics and erectile disfunction, premature ejaculation, and even what happens if you “break” your penis — not something I have experience with or knowledge of, but apparently it happens!
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Traver

Michael Gay is Uncivilized royalty, having been there from the beginning and is one of our co-leaders in our workshops. He’s also a licensed therapist and would probably be happiest living in the woods.
In this episode we explore the ways men and women both can create a deeper relationship with your intuition and the parts of your body and knowings that the civilized world divorces you from.

This is a great episode for anyone who wants a greater understanding of the how’s and why’s you exist in the world in the ways that you do.
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Traver

Chris is an old friend of The Uncivilized Podcast and in his third appearance with us speaks to the ways that we all numb and disconnect from our bodies, and the truth we’re so afraid to acknowledge.
In this potent exercise we speak of potent ways to be in your body, to live more powerfully, and experience who we are underneath lives shackled with fear and contraction.
Stick around to the end of this episode as Chris drops some fiery gems in the last 10 minutes!
Please also share this with one person in your life, or twenty. 

Cheers,

Traver