Last week I talked about getting your vision board to become your reality and closing the gap between the life you want to be living and the life you are living.

AND — many of you reached out and asked for techniques that you can use if you don’t have a community around you and you can’t afford to hire a coach or a consultant.

Enjoy.

Cheers,

Traver

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In my experience of over twenty years of coaching humans, most of you will get stuck in one place — needing permission.

Whether that’s to write your book, start your business, or even just be the healthiest one in your family, permission is a big wall for many people to climb.

And — it may not be the only wall. 

In this short, potent solo episode I break down the three reasons why most people don’t achieve their dreams and how you can start to change that immediately.

Enjoy.

Cheers,

Traver

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Chris Haueter is one of the dirty dozen — the first 12 non Brazilian, Brazilian Jiujitsu Black Belts. He’s also a philosopher poet, an incredible historian, and a teacher.

He’s also my old instructor and my old corner man.

In this episode we get to catch up after nearly two decades and Chris shares his thoughts on a number of topics including how he built a life around teaching the art he loves.

Enjoy.

Cheers,

Traver

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After coaching humans for over 20 years through the good times and the challenges of their lives, I know people and what helps us get past our blocks, our heartbreaks, and our limiting beliefs.

In this solo episode I’ll break down the six attributes I feel you need to either get through a hard time, or engage in a challenging endeavor like building a business, learning to surf, or creating the UNcivilized life of your dreams.

They are:

—Resilience

— Tenacity

— Faith

— Curiosity

— Humor

— Community

Enjoy.

Cheers,

Traver

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This week I have something special for you, I’ve recorded a live coaching session with one of the Kill The Nice Guy graduates. 

This episode is for you if you’ve ever struggled with the idea that you need permission to live life on your terms, to build what you want to build, and to go for something big.

We’re all about following your heart and soul and letting them guide you deep into the life you truly want to life. 

Enjoy.

Cheers,

Traver

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I get asked this question all the time so let’s dive into it. There are amazing ways you can support your man as he begins therapy, men’s work, or any other path to higher consciousness and healing.

I’ve worked with thousands of men over the years and know these three points are crucial to being there for your man, without letting it take over your own life.

Enjoy.

Cheers,

Traver

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This week I again have something special for you, a recorded live coaching session with one of the Kill The Nice Guy graduates. 

This episode is for you if you’ve ever struggled with anger and don’t see the connection between having loose or porous boundaries — and the resentment and anger that naturally builds up.

Give this a lesson as I walk Kevin through creating a strong, healthy boundary with his daughter who also happens to be his employee.

Enjoy.

Cheers,

Traver

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At the root of most addictive behavior is a deep dissatisfaction with one or many areas of a man’s life. I know because it wasn’t long ago that I needed to escape from my life multiple times a day with alcohol, marijuana, porn, exercise and work. Just to name a few.

In this episode I share with you the ROOT of this challenge and give you a frame for your life as a man. One that will create the type of life you don’t want to escape from. It’s not magic but it works.

Enjoy.

Cheers,

Traver

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This past month I’ve been on the phone with far too many men who are stuck in bad relationships — and refuse to leave them. 

Why? Because they’ve made it some sort of badge of honor to stay and suffer rather than leave and start over. In this episode I break down how you can shift areas of your marriage or relationship, and then why it’s more than okay, no matter what society tells you, to seek your happiness elsewhere.

Enjoy.

Cheers,

Traver

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In this fiery solo episode I break down The 4B Movement coming out of South Korea, The Passport Bro Movement here in the US, and the wildly needed UNcivilized Relationship Paradigm.

This episode is going to upset a lot of folks because, well, I’m in support of both movements despite the massive implications they will have societally. And I see them both as canaries in the relationship coal mine indicative of massive changes that need to come forward.

AND — at the end I outline a new way of relationship, one I feel is long overdue. 

Enjoy.

Cheers,

Traver

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