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Age Gaps in Relationships with Jamie Ruiz. Ep. 160


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Jamie Lee Ruiz is BACK, baby, and this time we are talking about… AGE DIFFERENCES IN RELATIONSHIPS LFG 👀 




In this episode…

  • The ”50 shades of grey” guys 
  • Open communication 
  • Safety 
  • Inappropriate age gaps and what makes them inappropriate…
  • When age gaps are good
  • Settling into adulthood
  • The magic of being young, wild, and free 
  • Losing your light and reclaiming it. 




Quotes


“Women have to get a lot more comfortable in their own skin to understand what they want, what they like, and what they expect.” - Nikki Spo


“Men don’t know what they don’t know. They don’t know what you like or what you want if you don’t say it.” - Jamie Lee Ruiz 


“I had to grow up very quickly and because of that I’ve learned that children should never be placed in adult roles. Parents sometimes emotionally dump on their children when it's not a child's responsibility to hold the emotional or physical capacity or weight of an adult.” - Nikki Spo


“There are men that have healing to do and either don’t know that they have to do it, or don’t want to do it and so it’s easier to get a young woman who is easily manipulated or molded that isn’t going to challenge them to grow.” - Jamie Lee Ruiz  






Timestamps: 

0:00 - 3:05 | Intro 

3:05 - 7:30 | The 50 shades of grey guys 

7:30 - 9:00 | Open communication 

9:00 - 10:30 | Age differences 

10:30 - 12:35 | A sense of maturity 

12:35 - 13:55 | Emotional and physical parenting as a child 

13:55 - 21:43 | What age is the age gap okay?

21:43 - 24:35 | Jamie’s POV on age differences 

24:35 - 26:45 | Dating older men 

26:45 - 30:30 | Young women 

30:30 - 34:05 | Losing your light 

34:05 - 36:10 | Do we still love older men? 

36:10 - 39:35 | What does dating look like with kids? 

39:35 - | Outro 







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