Zen Pop

Alfie Kohn encourages us to raise “reflective rebels”


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Our guest Alfie Kohn, author of  The Myth of the Spoiled Child, says that the negativity thrown at parents and the supposedly narcissistic kids they are raising is unfounded. Kohn says parents should work to raise kids with high self esteem, and that the fashionable belief that kids must develop grit and self-discipline through failure and suffering is unproven and often counterproductive.

A few of the topics we discuss with Alfie:

  • Warm responsive parenting is often confused with over indulgent and permissive parenting
  • Punishment and rewards don’t work
  • Competition is uniquely counterproductive
  • We want to raise “reflective rebels”
  • Other Resources

    Cathy’s 3rd book, Living What You Want Your Kids To Learn- The Power of Self-Aware Parenting, is now on sale! Scheduled ship date is first week of November. Go here to order your book.

    Todd co-facilitates The Tribe and is now accepting applications for his 2015 retreat.  Highlights of last years retreat can be found here.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rd4HfGvOl2k&index=19&list=PLJATAQGVhEVv7KoAcf-V7UKiN0_De-wqn

    Click the following links to purchase Cathy’s books The Self-Aware Parent Part 1  & and Part 2

    Click here to find her blog, and click here to find her Chicago Parent column.

    Todd has a few spots opening for his Men’s Group.  Email me @ [email protected]

    Tree of Life Chiropractic Care have some interesting workshops planned.  An outline can be found here.

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