In this bonus episode of Selective Ignorance, host Mandii B takes listeners on an introspective and thought-provoking journey through the concept of selective ignorance—the conscious choice to disengage from certain realities for the sake of peace, perspective, or personal growth. The episode opens with an introduction to the philosophy behind selective ignorance [00:00], as Mandii breaks down how people often tune out overwhelming information or societal pressures to protect their mental well-being. She shares personal anecdotes that highlight when ignoring the noise can be both a strength and a survival skill in today’s overstimulated world.

The conversation then transitions to parenting and the challenges of managing children in public spaces [02:24], where Mandii explores the delicate balance between judgment and empathy. Through humor and honesty, she discusses how parents navigate public expectations, social media critiques, and their own inner battles when children act out. This segment offers both relatable and raw insight into the societal double standards placed on mothers, especially when it comes to discipline and public behavior.

From there, Mandii examines the role of accents and speech in professional settings [12:36], addressing how language and tone often shape people’s perceptions of intelligence, competence, and credibility. She raises powerful questions about authenticity versus assimilation, sharing personal experiences and listener observations that reveal the hidden biases professionals face. This section challenges listeners to consider how often they “code-switch” to fit into spaces that don’t always make room for their full identities.

As the episode deepens, Mandii shifts into one of her most candid and emotional conversations yet—a discussion on the complexities of abortion decisions [22:03]. With compassion and sensitivity, she explores the emotional, moral, and societal layers surrounding reproductive choices, including the stigma and isolation many face in silence. She unpacks the conflicting narratives around bodily autonomy, judgment, and faith, urging listeners to approach these discussions with empathy rather than condemnation.

Closing the episode, Mandii reflects on the importance of staying engaged yet intentional about what we choose to absorb [36:20]. She encourages her audience to practice mindful awareness—choosing understanding over outrage, empathy over ignorance, and dialogue over division.

This intimate and reflective installment of Selective Ignorance captures Mandii B at her most vulnerable and insightful, blending storytelling, social commentary, and emotional depth to remind listeners that sometimes, knowing when to tune out is just as powerful as speaking up. 

“No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!
Sale Link

Follow the host on Social Media
Mandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps

Follow the show on Social Media
Instagram @selectiveignorancepod
Tiktok @selective.ignorance
X/Twitter @selectiveig_pod

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.