Parenting a child with ARFID (Avoidant/Restrictive Food Intake Disorder) can feel confusing and overwhelming. In this episode, Dr. Marianne Miller shares practical and compassionate strategies for parents who want to help their children eat with less fear and more confidence.

You will learn why pressure and negotiation tend to backfire, how to create low-stress mealtimes that build safety, and how to attune to your child’s sensory needs through a neurodivergent-affirming approach. Whether your child experiences food texture issues, fear of choking, or intense sensory overwhelm, this episode provides grounded, actionable steps for supporting eating with care and collaboration.

Understanding ARFID beyond “picky eating” and recognizing it as a real eating disorder rooted in fear, sensory distress, or trauma

Why pressure and negotiation can increase distress and decrease trust

How sensory context affects eating and what small environmental changes can help

Transitioning from authoritative to consent-based parenting that prioritizes autonomy and emotional safety

Building trust through predictable, transparent, and compassionate mealtime practices

Knowing when to seek professional ARFID-informed, trauma-aware, and neurodivergent-affirming support

This episode is for parents, caregivers, and family members who are trying to understand and support a child living with ARFID or selective eating. It is also helpful for therapists, dietitians, educators, and healthcare providers who want to better understand the family dynamics that shape mealtime stress and recovery.

Many families are told to use pressure or rewards to encourage eating. While this advice may seem helpful, it often increases distress for children with ARFID. In this episode, Dr. Marianne explains why traditional approaches like “one more bite” or “if you eat your veggies, you can have dessert” can erode trust and worsen fear.

Instead, you will hear how shifting toward collaboration, sensory awareness, and emotional safety supports genuine progress. Learning to trust your child’s signals and prioritize consent around food can transform your home and restore connection at the table.

This episode includes discussion of children’s eating distress, food avoidance, and anxiety around eating. Please listen with care if these topics may be sensitive for you or your family.

To learn more about supporting your child’s eating with compassion, visit drmariannemiller.com/arfid to explore Dr. Marianne’s ARFID & Selective Eating Course.

This self-paced, online course provides practical tools, scripts, and real-world examples to help parents reduce mealtime stress, build trust, and approach food in a supportive, neurodivergent-affirming way.