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Today we're reclaiming our erotic power and studying a holy trinity of queer feminist writers: Adrienne Rich, Audre Lorde, and Gloria Anzaldúa.

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Read The Bisexual Ghost.

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CREDITS

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With Additional Support from Mr. Dune

Artwork by Kayleigh Denner

Music by Dan Molad

A new sub wants to know how to manage jealousy when you're monogamous and your partner isn't. Aka, where is your place in the kink community if not at the so-called "cool kid's table?" Well, it's right here next to me.

Get instructions for submitting YOUR STORY to our community-sourced May Deep Dive here.

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CREDITS

Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune

With Additional Support from Mr. Dune

Artwork by Kayleigh Denner

Music by Dan Molad

Join me and Luna Matatas for a discussion all about cultivating body confidence in a messed up world!

Get the rest of my interview with Luna here.

Find Luna online here.

Join Patreon at $11/month to get the complete interview here, as well as access to the archives of interviews with discussions ranging from how to find a sex positive therapist, to how to navigate your local kink scene, to the scientific origins of masochism. Oh yeah, and my only public recorded convo with Mr. Dune.

To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, Join Patreon starting at $5/month!

Miss the Friday Q&As? They live on here & are totally free and public.

Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to [email protected]

Go here for information on how to record a voice memo

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Twitter | @Lina.Dune | @askasub2.0

CREDITS

Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune

With Additional Support from Mr. Dune

Artwork by Kayleigh Denner

Music by Dan Molad

A sub wants to know how to communicate their changing needs in a longterm relationship, and Lina equips them with proactive, active, and reactive tools for sharing feedback and keeping the D/s container safe (but also spicy).

To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, Join Patreon starting at $5/month!

Get my Conscious Kink course here.

Learn how to submit your story for the next Deep Dive here.

Miss the Friday Q&As? They live on here & are totally free and public.

Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to [email protected]

Go here for information on how to record a voice memo

Subscribe to the subby substack here.

Twitter | @Lina.Dune | @askasub2.0

CREDITS

Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune

With Additional Support from Mr. Dune

Artwork by Kayleigh Denner

Music by Dan Molad

A tour through the literary origins of masochism, as well as some modern mythbusting for the masochistically inclined.

Get my full interview with Leigh Cowart, author of Hurts So Good: The Science and Culture of Pain On Purpose, here.

Join our Deep Dive interview with Luna Matatas all about Diversity in Kink on 4/11 at 5 pacific / 8 eastern.

To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, Join Patreon starting at $5/month!

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Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to [email protected]

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CREDITS

Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune

With Additional Support from Mr. Dune

Artwork by Kayleigh Denner

Music by Dan Molad

Today we're tackling the question of how to share kink resources with vanilla people you encounter in your dating travels, strategies for protecting your energy as you do so, and how to hold out hope that you're going to convert seemingly vanilla folks into new kinksters.

How To Turn Your Vanilla Partner Into Your Dom | My free writing on kink| Book recs | Thich Nhat Hanh in context

Join our Deep Dive interview with Luna Matatas all about Diversity in Kink

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Free & Public Friday Q&As here

Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to [email protected]

How To Record A Voice Memo

Subscribe to the subby substack & read More on my breakup with Instagram

Twitter | @Lina.Dune | @askasub2.0

CREDITS

Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune

With Additional Support from Mr. Dune

Artwork by Kayleigh Denner

Music by Dan Molad

Safe Slut joined me to tell me all about her dating life as an HSV+ queen, shared her thoughts on disclosure, and gave us some insight into her first date rituals. Spoiler alert: an HSV diagnosis isn't going to end your sex life! In fact... it might make it even better.

How Herpes Became A Sexual Boogeyman (Slate)

Join Patreon at $11/month to get the complete interview here, as well as access to the archives of interviews with discussions ranging from how to find a sex positive therapist, to how to navigate your local kink scene, to the scientific origins of masochism. Oh yeah, and my only public recorded convo with Mr. Dune.

To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, Join Patreon starting at $5/month!

Miss the Friday Q&As? They live on here & are totally free and public.

Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to [email protected]

Go here for information on how to record a voice memo

Subscribe to the subby substack here.

Twitter | @Lina.Dune | @askasub2.0

CREDITS

Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune

With Additional Support from Mr. Dune

Artwork by Kayleigh Denner

Music by Dan Molad

A sub wants to know how to bring forward feminine energy and suppress the masculine during aftercare. Lina's response? Gender is fake, privilege is real, and pegging your Dom is a submissive act. How did we get there? Guess you'll have to listen.

To support the pod and engage in our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, Join Patreon starting at $5/month! http://www.patreon.com/askasub

Free & Public Friday Q&As: https://discord.gg/askasub

Conscious Kink Online Course: http://www.askasub.com/conscious-kink

The Endangered Celebrity Daddy (And The Pedro Pascalification Of My Mental Health): https://askasub.substack.com/p/the-endangered-celebrity-daddy

Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to [email protected]

How To Record A Voice Memo: http://www.askasub.com/podcast

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Twitter | @Lina.Dune | @askasub2.0

CREDITS

Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune

With Additional Support from Mr. Dune

Artwork by Kayleigh Denner

Music by Dan Molad

Cue up some disco and put on your finest assless chaps, we're taking a walking tour through the heart of leather culture in the 1970's - San Francisco's South of Market neighborhood (home of Folsom Street) and the many bars, clubs, and bathhouses that made it famous.

Check out my substack piece on the walking tour (which contains a link to download the PDF): https://askasub.substack.com/p/1970s-leather-culture

Free & Public Friday Q&As: https://discord.gg/askasub

Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to [email protected]

How to record a voice memo: http://www.askasub.com/podcast

More on my breakup with Instagram: https://askasub.substack.com/p/my-last-abusive-relationship

To join our live Q&A with Safe Slut on 3/12, join Patreon starting at $5/month: https://www.patreon.com/askasub

Twitter | @Lina.Dune | @askasub2.0

CREDITS

Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune

With Additional Support from Mr. Dune

Artwork by Kayleigh Denner

Music by Dan Molad

Today's episode is all about feeling your feelings. One sub asks whether it's possible to introduce kink to her partner in a non-sexual context, while another wants to know how to react in a subby way to conflict with their Dom.

Support the pod at http://www.patreon.com/askasub

Free & Public Friday Q&As on Discord: https://discord.gg/askasub

Mating In Captivity by Esther Perel

Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to [email protected]

How To Record A Voice Memo: http://www.askasub.com/podcast

More on my breakup with Instagram: https://askasub.substack.com/p/my-last-abusive-relationship

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